u/Serious_Cap_6869

Last year may il njanoru ale parichayapettu..

Really nice guy...

Handsome, educated and well settled..

Ayal adhyam ingott anu approach cheythath...

Oru casual relation nu thalparyam undenn...

Adhyam enikath accept cheyyan bhudhimutt thonni...

Pinnid njangal Friendsinte oppam trip ok poyirinnu...

Apolathe avante perumattam karanam njaan ok paranju...

Friend with benefit pole oru relation...

Njan anxious attachment style ulla alanu...

Over thinking ok und..

Athukond cheriya karyangalil vare njan nervous avum..

Ath avanu ariyam..

Avan koode koode ninn pala karyangalilum support cheythu...

Njangal regular ayi kanum.. Chat cheyyum hangouts und...

Avan avante life le ella karyavum parayum..

Even financial problems vare...

Pathiye pathiye avan enikoru addiction pole ayi...

Enthinum ethinum avan venam...

Oru masam kazhinjapol avanu cruise l job sheri ayi....

Avanath adhyam paranjath enod anu...

Athinu shesham avanoru course padikkan poyi...

Ann muthal njangal thamilulla contact limit cheyyapettu....

One week nu shesham njangal vindum kandum...

Ann njangal caril vech physical ayi kurachu intimate ayi...

Pinne pinne njangalkidayil cheriya cheriya problems undavan thundangi..

Avasanam njangal thamil mindathayi...

Avan cruise l povunnathinu munp onn kananam enn paranjenkilum oro oro karanangal kond ath nadannill...

Povunnathinte thale divasamanu avan povunna karyam polum parayunnath...

Poyi kurachu nal valiya contact undayilla..

Pinne pathiye vindum chating thudangi...

Ennal vindum njangalk idayil problems undavan thundangi...

Enkilum breakup patch up angane avan leave nu varunnath vare ee relation neendu poyi...

Leave nu nattil vannapol avan adhyam kanan vannath enneyanu...

Annum njangal thamil physical intimacy undayi...

Avanu ake 20days leave undayirunnollu...

Povunnathinu munp orikkal koodi njangal kandu..

Ann dinnerinokke poyi..

Annum njangal thamil cheriyoru vazhakk undayi...

Leave kazhinju avan povunnath vare njangal thamil pinne mindiyilla...

Athinu shesham njan message ayachu...

Avan casual ayi reply thannu..

Chat njangalude last intimacy ye kurichu ayapol avan pettann paranju ini athonnum undavilla...

Ini angane onnum venda...

Ath sheri avilla ennokke paranju...

Njan kooduthal tharkkikkan nilkathe "ok"

Athinu shesham vindum no contact lekk poyi...

After 20 days njan vindum reconnect cheythu...

Avan reply cheyyunnund..

Chothikkunnathinu answer tharunnund..

Karyangal explain cheyyunnund...

Ennalum defense mode anu...

Enthukondanu avan pettann angane paranjath enn enik manasilavunnilla...

Enik frnd ayittenkilum avan koode venamennund...

Enthankilum vazhi undo...

How to slowly becoming unforgettable.

I reconnected with my FWB 20 days after the breakup.

We were just chatting — it was about editing a photo.

I thought he wouldn’t reply, but he actually responded in a way that wasn’t as dry as I expected.

He even explained a few personal things while replying.

I was the one who ended the chat.

I do want a future in this relationship, but I don’t want to rush it either.

How can I slowly make a place in his mind in a way that he won’t be able to forget me over time?

NB: He’s a sailor, and the only connection between us right now is chatting....

I reconnected with my FWB 20 days after the breakup.

We were just chatting — it was about editing a photo.

I thought he wouldn’t reply, but he actually responded in a way that wasn’t as dry as I expected.

He even explained a few personal things while replying.

I was the one who ended the chat.

I do want a future in this relationship, but I don’t want to rush it either.

How can I slowly make a place in his mind in a way that he won’t be able to forget me over time?

NB: He’s a sailor, and the only connection between us right now is chatting....

I reconnected with my FWB 20 days after the breakup.

We were just chatting...

it was about editing a photo.

I thought he wouldn’t reply, but he actually responded in a way that wasn’t as dry as I expected....

He even explained a few personal things while replying...

I was the one who ended the chat.

I do want a future in this relationship, but I don’t want to rush it either.

How can I slowly make a place in his mind in a way that he won’t be able to forget me over time...?

NB: He’s a sailor, and the only connection between us right now is chatting...

I had a casual relationship… mainly for physical needs… for two years.

But we were together only for the first two months after we met. During that time, I felt a strong physical attraction toward him, though nothing much happened between us.

After that, he got a job and left.

Eight months later, whenever he came on leave, he used to say that everything would be okay.

When he came home, he surprised me by coming to see me. That day, he was very affectionate.

He only had 20 days of leave, so he said we should try to fulfill my wishes this time, otherwise maybe next time.

I got angry.

Even though I tried telling him a lot, it didn’t happen because I was never really his priority.

After that, we went out for dinner, and there was some foreplay and oral sex.

Even then, I felt a kind of distance between us.

A week later, he went back.

I didn’t even feel like wishing him a happy journey.

After another week, I messaged him. At first he seemed interested, but suddenly he said he no longer wanted a physical relationship.

He said one time was enough, otherwise things wouldn’t end well.

I said okay and ended the chat.

But even now, that feels emotionally unfulfilled for me.

Because of the intense attraction I have toward him, I’m unable to connect with anyone else.

Is there any chance he might come back?

Why do you think he suddenly said all this?

I’m someone with an anxious attachment style.

The person I wanted a relationship with is avoidant.

Even though it started as a casual relationship, he has now decided he doesn’t want it anymore.

But I still want to reconnect with him. Is there any solution?

I’m 27 (F)… My breakup happened a month ago. It was a long-distance relationship… Even if it wasn’t an extremely serious relationship, it affected me mentally and emotionally....

We’ve broken up many times before like this… and we’ve also patched up many times. But this time, I feel like things may not go back to normal naturally...

I’m thinking of reconnecting after 2 months… Can you tell me what I should do to strengthen the bond between us..?

Chatting is the only option we have between us… So I want to solve the problems through chatting alone....