I feel like not enough people talk about living with a person who has an ED, or is heading towards one.

So im starting to think my twin brother is starting to have an eating disorder. And words cannot explain the helplessness and rage im feeling, i know i shouldn't be feeling rage and anger, but i have been through the same, like my therapist said, dipping my foot in eating disorder zone, i have been there. I know the feeling of lying to everyone you already ate, i know that one feeling after eating nothing the entire day and feeling weightless like a feather. And today, my twin brother said he isnt feeling hungry when we ate dinner, he said he ate one meal today. A "big burger". I said, of course, that that was not enough for a normal person, and if he continues like that, it could lead to serious effects. He became angry and said "Okay and?! You also had those days where you didn't eat anything!" Then he stormed off to his room. I shoutef after him "If you continue like this, you will die!". A littke context is needed, couse he is eating less and less portions. But back to now. I went to my mom, and said that im concerned about him, about his recent behavior. I said to her that my twin brother said that he ate a burger, (they went to a doc appointment today) and she said he didn't eat anything. She literally said that they didn't go eat today, just straight to the doc and back. And that's the moment i realized, if i dont do anything, in a few years i might have to see my twin brother in a cascet.

So could you please give me any advice on how to stop this? And now that i think about it, the thing i said about him dying if he continues like this, was unfounded and overreacting, i think.

and the rage part is more desperation than rage. i feel like if i begged for him to eat his meal, he would just turn around and slam his door in my face and scream at me to leave him alone.

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u/Shoddy-Economy-7619 — 10 hours ago

I feel like not enough people talk about living with a person who has an ED, or is heading towards one.

So im starting to think my twin brother is starting to have an eating disorder. And words cannot explain the helplessness and rage im feeling, i know i shouldn't be feeling rage and anger, but i have been through the same, like my therapist said, dipping my foot in eating disorder zone, i have been there. I know the feeling of lying to everyone you already ate, i know that one feeling after eating nothing the entire day and feeling weightless like a feather. And today, my twin brother said he isnt feeling hungry when we ate dinner, he said he ate one meal today. A "big burger". I said, of course, that that was not enough for a normal person, and if he continues like that, it could lead to serious effects. He became angry and said "Okay and?! You also had those days where you didn't eat anything!" Then he stormed off to his room. I shoutef after him "If you continue like this, you will die!". A littke context is needed, couse he is eating less and less portions. But back to now. I went to my mom, and said that im concerned about him, about his recent behavior. I said to her that my twin brother said that he ate a burger, (they went to a doc appointment today) and she said he didn't eat anything. She literally said that they didn't go eat today, just straight to the doc and back. And that's the moment i realized, if i dont do anything, in a few years i might have to see my twin brother in a cascet.

So could you please give me any advice on how to stop this?

And now that i think about it, the thing i said about him dying if he continues like this, was unfounded and overreacting, i think.

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u/Shoddy-Economy-7619 — 10 hours ago

I feel like not enough people talk about living with a person who has an ED, or is heading towards one.

So im starting to think my twin brother is starting to have an eating disorder. And words cannot explain the helplessness and rage im feeling, i know i shouldn't be feeling rage and anger, but i have been through the same, like my therapist said, dipping my foot in eating disorder zone, i have been there. I know the feeling of lying to everyone you already ate, i know that one feeling after eating nothing the entire day and feeling weightless like a feather. And today, my twin brother said he isnt feeling hungry when we ate dinner, he said he ate one meal today. A "big burger". I said, of course, that that was not enough for a normal person, and if he continues like that, it could lead to serious effects. He became angry and said "Okay and?! You also had those days where you didn't eat anything!" Then he stormed off to his room. I shoutef after him "If you continue like this, you will die!". A littke context is needed, couse he is eating less and less portions. But back to now. I went to my mom, and said that im concerned about him, about his recent behavior. I said to her that my twin brother said that he ate a burger, (they went to a doc appointment today) and she said he didn't eat anything. She literally said that they didn't go eat today, just straight to the doc and back. And that's the moment i realized, if i dont do anything, in a few years i might have to see my twin brother in a cascet.

So could you please give me any advice on how to stop this?

And now that i think about it, the thing i said about him dying if he continues like this, was unfounded and overreacting, i think.

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u/Shoddy-Economy-7619 — 10 hours ago
▲ 33 r/WitchcraftCircleJerk+1 crossposts

Why isn't Hoyoverse adding a skip button to genshin impact?

Cards:

King of swords rx

Temperance

10 of wands

The tower

Deck: Fyodor Pavlov

My interpretation: hoyoverse does not care about it's player base (10 of swords) and they like it that way. They feel so casual, so peaceful while outside the fandom is at it knees begging for a skip button. So, my interpretation is, they do not give a shi about the genshin inpact community.

So today i saw man dying. And i dont mean getting shot, falling or all that, but i mean i saw someone perfom cpr on another person. I know you might be thinking "oh its just cpr, it can not be that bad", it was. One of the problems i think was, that the man that cpr was performed on had a.. rather larger stomach. And you could see the shockwaves hit across his body as they perform cpr. And later, you could see the man twitch as they do the electric thingy for the heart. And after i saw that, i was feeling strange. I was zoning out, disassociating, feeling like a shell of myself, really. But on my way home (i was on lunch break on school w friends, and we had a longer break cuz second last period was called off, so we had 2 hour lunch break) i talked to another friend, who wasn't at school couse they overslept, about what happened and aftet i did that i felt better ofc. But when my older brother found out about what i saw, he said i need to see my therapist, and said that it will come back later to haunt me. And now that i try to remember what i saw today, i can barely remember, and i dont know if its trauma repression (couse my brain is a repeating offender in that) or just bottling up emotions (which my brain is also doing when under high emotions)

Ty for reading!!

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u/Shoddy-Economy-7619 — 2 months ago

Im watching a lore video rn but i understand nothing. Like why does it want to kill us when we shoot us? Why is there yellow in on the ship? Is it actually that queen's ship? And why is the zero point in shambles? and why is he a villain? or is he even a villian? i need someone to explain it to me like im a 5 yr old

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u/Shoddy-Economy-7619 — 2 months ago