u/Sic_Parvis_Mag_na

I try to be respectful and understanding of women's emotions, and political views (especially this), but I'm tired of the man hating and hypocrisy. I’m not 100% if this a progressive women stereotype, and I’m sure it’s not all women, but it’s super annoying when I speak on something I’m an expert on, my career for example, and they somehow think they know more than me. The confidence in their ignorance is nuts.

I have one friend for instance (who I’m starting to distance myself from) who walks around thinking she’s right about everything, super critical of everything and everyone, but if I ever mention anything that is objectively wrong, she responds with “you don’t know what you’re talking about”. One time, I was explaining something, I can’t remember what, and the first thing she says “please stop mansplaining” but later that day she was “mansplaining”. It’s gotten to the point where just ignore her.

I’ve come across several women who have this entitled attitude because they’re “so in thought” or “can understand” the struggle, and their point of view is typically wrong, narrow minded, or ignorant and when I call them out on, and show them proof of how wrong they are, they walk away or get annoyed and upset.

I’m getting very fed up with this behavior and it’s making it difficult for me to even think about women in a positive way.

The amount of complaining, “injustice”, and ignorant comments are becoming so disgusting.

I don’t want to develop an ignorant point of view, or insult women, but I want an opinion from other women to understand what I’m experiencing.

When I go on dates with similar progressive women, they respond SO well to my dismissive behavior, hot and cold attitude, and zingers. Especially when I am condescending, it’s like on the first date they’re enamored with my behavior, and when I ghost them, they become so obsessed.

This is so confusing and I’d like other perspectives. I don’t want to be an asshole, I was raised by my parents to be polite and respectful, open doors for people behind you, address women as ma’am, men as sir, helping people in general. But fuck am I getting close to just complete not believing women (some, not all) anymore and any plight they face, I’m just gonna say “get wrecked” or just taunt them, I can’t deal with this shit anymore. Anytime I try and help or give advice when they vent (and if I stay quiet, all I get is “well, are you going to say anything?”), I get hit with “why do men always think women need help”.

Also, I’ve noticed this in major cities I’ve lived in, on the east coast.

I use Claude as a tool to simplify my work itself. I also have ChatGPT business. I don’t understand the difference between ClaudeCowork and dispatch (are these agents?). I want to create a very simple, streamlined agent with a simple dashboard, kind of a like a central hub/command center.

For reference, I manage several properties and I’m an independent real estate consultant, I work with flippers and I have to deliver several recommendations, and I want to increase the amount of deliverables I can do in one day. Claude for MS has made a huge difference, but I’m wondering if I can just input raw data from the MLS, provided instructions, let it do the work and all I have to do is QC.

Thoughts?

And if at all possible, then later on create a life dashboard to organize my personal life.

I've been using Claude for some time, but I know I am not using Claude to it's fullest potential. There are some tasks that will take me 5 minutes with Claude and in other cases, I just end up doing the task myself because it's faster if I do it myself.

What are some recommendations you all may have from your personal experience that has improved your productivity.

Any help is appreciated.

Before you say anything, I know Claude is better (and I prefer Claude).

Today, a friend got an offer from Amex for a discount on ChatGPT through his Amex Biz card. I'm not sure how much the offer is for, but in order to use the offer he needed to subscribe to the business subscription. He gave me access (for free and doesn't want me to pay him back for it), but I don't even know what to use it for. Like, I code on Claude, and so many other things. My experience with ChatGPT hasn't been good which is why I switched to Claude.

So, does anyone use ChatGPT and what for? Is it any good at all?

Before you say anything, I know Claude is better (and I prefer Claude).

Today, a friend got an offer from Amex for a discount on ChatGPT through his Amex Biz card. I'm not sure how much the offer is for, but in order to use the offer he needed to subscribe to the business subscription. He gave me access (for free and doesn't want me to pay him back for it), but I don't even know what to use it for. Like, I code on Claude, and so many other things. My experience with ChatGPT hasn't been good which is why I switched to Claude.

So, does anyone use ChatGPT and what for? Is it any good at all?

Just a reminder… Neville said your imagination is god. So ask yourself, would god ever hurt himself? Or tell himself “i can’t do it” despite creating everything in this universe?

Remember:
Everyone is you pushed out
(Walk around thinking of different ways people show you kindness)

Your imagination creates reality
(Today I could sit at home and do jack shit, or go out for a walk/to the club/to a networking event/etc… you know you desire X, but in order to get it you need to assume it’s yours and the best way to do that is by walking around acting like it’s yours)

Doubts are normal
(It’s like recovering from a cold, drink the NyQuil until you get better. Yes, you don’t feel better but you will! If you stop taking it, and don’t get rest (letting go) you’ll never get better)

Manifesting is the law of humanity. Humanity was gifted with consciousness to experience life. If imagination/consciousness is god, and god is omnipotent and omniscient and every human has consciousness and imagination, that means you share your thoughts and reality with everyone else. So just dictate what you want and let consciousness lead the way)

These are the methods/interpretations/views I’ve developed to help me come to a better understanding of the law.

When you wake up, say this to yourself

“I am an actor, and today I feel like acting as X”

Then get up, get ready, grab a Kind bar, etc. and walk out the front door to wherever you need to go (remember, you’ve been acting as X the entire time. The way they put on their socks, the way they walk to and from each room in their house, you get the picture).

Actors forget their lines, trip on set, they get lost along the way (3D triggers, frustration, the works), and despite having completed script (your desire), it’s their job and responsibility to bring that character to life (embodiment, feeling of the wish fulfilled). In the end, they embodied the character and delivered one hell of a performance.

Your script has already been written. In fact, there are an infinite number scripts to choose from (infinite realities). So choose your favorite storyline, walk every day as that character and watch your story unfold.

Rehearse your lines (subliminals, affirmations, etc), get back up after falling on set (getting triggered by the 3D and losing faith), envision how you plan on playing the character differently this time (SATS/envisioning), take a deep breath, and… “ACTION!” You walk into the scene and act out what you had envisioned (embodying the state of the wish fulfilled). Guess what… you are the person who is X, because you always were.

Actors don’t always feel the character immediately (old beliefs, resistance), sometimes they do (it’s mine), but in the end, they always embody the character when they choose to come back, over and over again, despite many failures. It takes them a while to figure out where they want to take the character, so they rehearse, and practice (the story you tell yourself). A LOT! Until they get it right (embodiment).

Just because you don’t feel it today, doesn’t mean you will never feel it at all. Just keep acting (persistence) until you get a groove going and know how to play your part (the feeling). If you stop acting, then you’re done filming your scene and your movie doesn’t get made.

So don’t say “CUT!” Do what Jack Nicholson said, “but if you keep the camera rolling…”

Every day, you have to act your character out. Ask or tell yourself,

“how would my character act in this situation?”

“My character would never do that!”

“My character has decided that they are going to do X”

“My character does not tolerate the bare minimum”

“Wow, he did it. He fucking did it…” (with that Maverick smirk on their face. They weren’t surprised by the outcome, because it would naturally unfold that way all along)

Actors are constantly having to remind themselves of their lines, or remembering there’s a prop near by. But when they get it right, boy do they get it right. Those scenes that are filled with emotion, that’s embodiment, that’s the “feeling of the wish fulfilled”.

So go be your character (I AM), whoever they may be!

Your story may be “The Vow” or “Suits” or [insert badass movie here… ahem… your badass movie].

You never see the final product until the end, which means there is an end. Yes, the script is finished, but the director gives the actors the artistic freedom to shape and develop the character.

The Movie: Your desire
The script: the story you choose to tell yourself
The writer/producer: consciousness (your vision)
The actor: the version of you who has it (I AM)

So go and play your role because you already picked the script, now it’s time to shine and act it out!

Hope this helped.