u/Signal_Talk6760

F4M | Looking for a Meaningful & Peaceful Connection 💫

Age: 24

Gender: Female

Height: 5'0"

Location: Hyderabad, India

Willing to LDR: Yes

Dietary Habits: Non-Vegetarian

Language Preference: Telugu only

Smoking/Drinking Habits: No

Smoking/Drinking in Partner: Occasional is fine

Religious Orientation: Hindu

Willing to Date Other Religion: No

Introduction:

I am a simple, independent, and non-materialistic person who believes in peaceful living and healthy communication. I love movies, music, cooking, travelling, and spending quality time with close people. I believe relationships should be fun, peaceful, understanding, and emotionally supportive

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Minimum Expectations

Age between 24 to 29

Height 5'5" and above

Responsible, kind, understanding, and emotionally mature person

Family-oriented mindset

Non-vegetarian preferred

Yadav caste preferred for family approval and long-term compatibility

Occasional smoking/drinking is okay

End Note:

Looking for a genuine connection with mutual respect, honesty, and good communication. :)

So back when I'm in. College and I'm 21 years naku pelli choopulu ayayi , so naku cheparu ila chudadaniki vastaru ani naku male interaction ae takkuva ippudu sudden ga oka abbayi tho life long undali ante???

Naku 4 days nidra ledu tension tho so naku saree kati ready chesaru sweets avi ivi vala side oka 12 members vacharu , abbayini nanu matladamanaru nenu bane matlada aa abbayi answer chesadu kani tanu single child so vala ammani baga chusukovali vache ammayi anadu

Vala dad kuda nanu ekkado chusadu anta inka vale vasta anaru , ma akka pregnant appudu ma intlo untadi ayina ma bava illarikam , so na height chusaru and ma akka ni kuda levamanaru. Tanu oka weird face petindi , adigaru tanani ikkade unatava ani,taravata naku poolu thala lo petti velipoyaru, aa abbayi kuda pelli taravata work na choice anadu

So they rejected me saying I'm little bit chubby and I'm short fyi I'm 5'0 and I'm 57 kg then and he is some 5'8 and idk kg , my mom started scolding me why didn't u exercise all that she said I lost a valuable match , after that we got to know it's a dowry issue as the land we promised is not in certain place then my mom cooled down, my brother said why didn't u put lens and get ready better all that

My sister only supported me saying they are fools they even said my face looked like it had so much makeup 😏my makeup is minimal though.

So point enti taravata telisindi aa abbayiki working wife ae vadu anta 😶 asalu evaru valani ramanaru, nanu chusaru ga bayata, e inspection enti

Aa taravata oka 5 days malli nidra ledu anxiety attacks I felt insecure but i got normal again , pelli choopulu are bullshit now i understand why people meet at coffee shops , maku e hadiviki dabbulu bokka

I'm working now happily and yeah I'm working on my weight and career so yeah i will never get into this pelli choopulu scam.

Tdlr : got rejected in pelli choopulu because of height and weight, real reason is dowry , guy is mamas boy and his family is biggest hypocrite they saw me outside and they wanted to come to home and rejected me , pelli choopulu is waste of money , better meet people outside.

So me and my friend lets call radha went to cream stone at some 11 like that after coming to room she noticed she lost her silver bracelet so we went at some 12 : 30 like that to cream stone ,enquired and coming back , didn't found it. When we went back to search i wore crop top and pant and she wore shorts and shirt , she is bengali so while coming back I heard a guy in bike saying " Em undi ra ginja" she didn't understand anything

Chala easy ga anestaru enti vala akkada smoke chestunaru kani naku em badha anipiyale Enduku ante valu kukkalu anthe anukuna their opinion is nothing to me.enduko valamaina harm cheste ani kuda anipiyale because we are literally in mid of road , enduko naku bayam anipiyale.

Nenu 7 th lo unnappudu na friend pooja anukundam tanu intiki pilichindi and nenu tana kotha friend like aa class lone friend ayyam. Tanaki 1 class nuchi inko friend undi rekha anukundam.memu 3 friends ga undevalem. So ma idarini Sunday morning 9 ki pilichindi , nenu 9 ki vela . Valu rich ae like central vizag lo 3 storey building and kinda floor shop ki rent icharu paina vala illu. Intlo kuda pedda hall literaly biggest hall I have ever seen.

So vela enjoy chesam , e rekha 12 ki vachindi oka one hour inka enjoy chesam , tarvata ma dad call chesadu pick up chesokodaniki rana ani, appude e pooja adigindi vuntava evening varaku ani nenu enjoy chestuna ga ani tanaki vunta ani chepi dad ki evening ra ana , taravata pooja oka sad face peti vachi naku ela chepalo teliyatle kani e roju ma mom ki periods vanta cheyaru , bayata nuchi tepestam nuvu unte food saripodu andhi, nanu velamani anatu rekha ki em anale nenu oka smiley face peti uncle, aunty ki bye chepi road medaki vachi dad ki call chesa vachey mani

Nenu em edvaledu but it's surprising more than sad, intiki vachey guest ni ila treat chesatara anukole , they are literally rich they can afford little more food em tinestam aa age lo ayina.i was so embarassed for that incident that I never shared it to anyone recently i told my akka and one friend they are like why didn't u tell me before , what is there to embarassed about, you didn't do any mistake anadi akka.rekha and Pooja never apologised after that.

Twist enti ante their friendship got broken , they have been good friends but adhe year lo rekha oka abbayi ni love cheste , aa matter sir ki teliste , migata matter e pooja ni adigite first ae chepisindi so betrayal anamata now they are no longer friends.

Whatever, i understood that why our hindu culture says athidi devo bhava.

Tdlr :In my teenage, went to friends home , it's pooja home , i came at 9 on time , rekha came at 12. When it's lunch time , pooja asked me to go as her mom has periods they will order food from outside and it will not be enough but she didn't say anything to rekha .after that they never apologised. Rekha and Pooja friendship got broken cause pooja revealed all her love story of rekha upon asking by sir.anyway treat ur guests right.

Guys they don't know my caste , rekha and Pooja are not same caste too , I assume it's classism not casteism or it's that they are just money minded people. Whatever reasons it may be we should treat our guests in a right way.