Is he racist? Am I homophobic?

I have always supported civil rights on so many levels. I marched in black lives matters, my family has been instrumental in the movement. I had the opportunity to meet Rosa Parks twice, Pete Seeger, john lewis and the like at Highlander Research and Education Center, a leading civil rights organization founded by my family. That is my background. I was talking to some friends and the question came up; am I homophobic for not wanting to go to a drag show? I see nothing wrong with them, I just do not care to do that. The racist question came about when our friend said he wouldn't date a girl who had dated (slept with) a black guy. We said that was racist. He said it wasn't it was a preference and he feels like that would bug him if he knew that and it would negatively affect his feelings for her. What do you folks say?

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u/Silent_Emphasis_4469 — 3 days ago
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If your partner shared her relationship past with you, how did it impact your relationship?

I was curious if anyone's relationship was impacted by gaining that knowledge.

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u/Silent_Emphasis_4469 — 16 days ago

I don't want to overreact

I recently learned that when our daughter was 16 and 17 she went to a basketball camp at Tennessee Tech. A 25-26 year old assistant coach for their women's basketball team seduced my daughter two years straight. It has been years, but I know who the guy is. This was kept from me for decades. What should I do?

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u/Silent_Emphasis_4469 — 18 days ago
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Blunted Emotions/Feelings

Has anyone here experienced a lack of interest in activities and things that they used to enjoy. I almost seem detached. I started taking this for depression and intrusive thoughts. The thoughts won't leave me, but they seem more tempered and do not totally shut me dow. I'm able to mask my inner feelings better, which causes less stress from those around me. any thoughts, experiences, or knowledge about other's experiences would be greatly appreciated.

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u/Silent_Emphasis_4469 — 28 days ago