I know he is not ready to go and it hurts me to see him in so much pain and I can’t do anything.
The only thing I did is starting to cry in front of him multiple times.
I try to hide my tears because I know he doesn’t want to leave his 4 daughters and wife behind like that. He doesn’t want to see us in pain.
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Dad (57) has been diagnosed in 2022 with thymic carcinoma stage iv spread to his lungs.
From the beginning we knew the treatment would be hard as the doctors never figured what type of carcinoma he has and it tested on everything negative (so most of the treatments would not target the tumors).
They have tried 9 different ways of treatment including chemo radio immuno etc etc. End of July we got the news he is in hospice and won’t be getting any treatment anymore unless he finds himself a clinical study or research that is willing to experiment on him.
Since then I am scared every day 💔. I had never even heard of thymus until this weird illness came out of nowhere and is going to take my dad away… and toring our family and my heart apart.
I love you dad I hope you stay strong for us I don’t want you to leave us The feeling of missing you will be an eternal ache in my heart
My dad is terminally sick (cancer) and yesterday we had to rush him to urgent care because of fever and turns out he has a lung infection.
I sent to my bf that I was at the urgent care for my dad and that I’m scared for him and just pouring my heart out. He already knew that my dad was terminally ill and I have cried over it to him already. He didn’t react nothing just because he was at (what he described to be) a ‘dumb’ local festival (basically a free small music event in a park accessible for everyone). He went to it several times just because ‘the whole gang will be there’ and he doesn’t like the music. The festival ended at 1am and I didn’t hear anything until around 3am.
He doesn’t send any updates where he is what he is doing and with whom, never invites me to go with him, nothing. His notifs are always on and he has an I watch so he probably saw and just ignored because he wants to enjoy this moment with his friends. I felt hurt and just didn’t respond to his calls at 3am & I also feel exhausted from the day.
AIO? I think it’s a bit childish of me but I feel sad and I’m scared for my dad. I don’t even recognize him anymore it’s creepy.
My dad was diagnosed in 2022 with thymic cancer and it was already stage iv spread to his lungs.
Now we’re in 2026, he has suffered a lot, it has spread to his liver & the hospital said that they won’t give him any treatment as they don’t deem it necessary anymore. They said they tried everything.
I don’t know what to do.
Thanks just venting & maybe some words of support needed?
I’m a 24F, he is 28M. I already knew he was bi and I have had discussions with him in the past regarding his online activity (he was asking women online if they wanted to humiliate his dick). I told him back then that he needs to do something with his porn addiction if he wants this relationship with me. He said yes yes I will change etc I forgave him. Now I randomly stumbled upon his X account and I see he follows a bunch of trans girl accounts where explicit content is posted (I can’t see as I didn’t verify my identity). I just sent him ‘I just saw on X that you follow a bunch of trans girls. I’m disgusted.’ We were planning on a date next week. This is really a non-negotiable for me. And still: it’s one thing to watch and something else to follow. I’m at a loss for words and I don’t know what to do with it?
I’m a first year junior since September. It just dawned on me that I might be feeling depressed because I have not been involved in work the last couple of months. Barely any calls, no meetings, no projects, partner does not interact with me but will complain behind my back that I don’t talk to him, no one notices me, just literally nothing.
Nothing would change if I just didn’t go tomorrow.
E-mails and letters full of mistakes. I don’t know what to do. I just act like I know nothing because I was not involved in the process anyways.
Not asking for myself, just thinking it’s a sticky situation right?