25, Moved alone to uae. Started a whole new chapter where I had no prior connections what so ever. I don’t like dating apps and dating in general is very transactional here. I’d like to settle down and marry before 30. I found friends in colleagues but i don’t understand how can somebody find love like this?
Can somebody roast me about how privileged and 1st world my problems are to bring me back to reality and not be ungrateful. My biggest worries are fomo and if I am looking my best self every second and missing out on fun if I lock in
Okay I've seen so many posts bashing mbbs. Here's all the pros:
You'll never retire.
Nobody can transfer you like bank jobs or corporate jobs. You choose where you work, be it a mountain area, beach area, tier 1 or simply your hometown.
You CAN get a guaranteed job after just mbbs degree. Although low paying, but more paying than what Amity cse graduates get na?
While pursuing masters, you get paid. Unlike MBA/MSc.
The books are so colourful.
You get instant respect in social groups, from relatives.
The chances of you staying unemployed after mbbs is almost nil (private hospitals will employ you at least)
You get to save lives! How cool is that??
Your parents would get old and sick one day, you'd know how to guide and understand what's happening to them
You'll have doctor friends so might get a priority in hospital checkups, access to the best surgeon etc.
You can CHOOSE to have a work life balance after few years... Wanna earn a lot of money? Work 20 hours. Wanna spend enough time with friends and family and satisfied with 1-1.5 lakhs a month? Work 8 hours. The CHOICE is yours. (Engineers also work 9-5 and get orders from bosses even after that btw)
You can aura farm in your school reunions.
Correct me if I'm wrong. Also you can add more advantages if you know any.
What’s your preference in women. More than 5’5 or less than 5’5?
Can anybody explain what is it like for a young adult to move to a bigger city alone for college after living in a relatively conservative place with conservative parents
Okay no kidding, I’m one of those people who are UNHEALTHILY love oriented. I can and will forget about the whole big world for LOVE. I don’t want relationship and haven’t been in for a good amount of time because it’s not the time for it. The emotional hunger, the void, really affects my everything. Right now what I need is to be a person who loves working hard for a specific goal (1 year goal, career). I find no interest in anything that’s not love. I keep getting thoughts of “what’s the point” in anything other than that. Especially in career part. How do I reach that mindset ?
I don’t have someone I can talk to or I can share my everyday little details to share with
If someone is interested in being my friend and to be an emotional support for each other without any sharing of identity (like a fake name), let’s talk
Till 10th, I was living on airplane mode, superficial interests and dreams. Jab senses aur real life mai aye toh coaching ki lifestyle and strict parents ki waje se kuch kiya hi nhi ha. No hangouts with friends. I don’t even have friends. There’s no one I’m close to. Or interested to talk to me because I’m not relevant anymore. I tried dating,, became a survival mechanism,, and I could pull but didn’t work well,, ofc is economy mai kaise? eventually ab not interested in this. But there must be more to life na? What hobbies should a person have? What interests can a person explore? and to remain a human with own identity without the medical student or doctor or any tag