Can anybody explain what is it like for a young adult to move to a bigger city alone for college after living in a relatively conservative place with conservative parents
Okay no kidding, I’m one of those people who are UNHEALTHILY love oriented. I can and will forget about the whole big world for LOVE. I don’t want relationship and haven’t been in for a good amount of time because it’s not the time for it. The emotional hunger, the void, really affects my everything. Right now what I need is to be a person who loves working hard for a specific goal (1 year goal, career). I find no interest in anything that’s not love. I keep getting thoughts of “what’s the point” in anything other than that. Especially in career part. How do I reach that mindset ?
I don’t have someone I can talk to or I can share my everyday little details to share with
If someone is interested in being my friend and to be an emotional support for each other without any sharing of identity (like a fake name), let’s talk
Till 10th, I was living on airplane mode, superficial interests and dreams. Jab senses aur real life mai aye toh coaching ki lifestyle and strict parents ki waje se kuch kiya hi nhi ha. No hangouts with friends. I don’t even have friends. There’s no one I’m close to. Or interested to talk to me because I’m not relevant anymore. I tried dating,, became a survival mechanism,, and I could pull but didn’t work well,, ofc is economy mai kaise? eventually ab not interested in this. But there must be more to life na? What hobbies should a person have? What interests can a person explore? and to remain a human with own identity without the medical student or doctor or any tag