AITA for venting to a friend about my parents?

Hi everyone, so basically how this story starts is with my mother,my dad, and me F18, so yesterday afternoon I went down to my parents to ask if my boyfriend could come over they have never had a issue with him comeing over and I didn't think this would be a problem here how the covo went

Me: Can boyfriend come over?

My mother: You could go to over town?

Me: No, we both don't feel like it he's been working snice Friday. Can he please come here?

Mother: No.

Me:Why? It would only be for a few hours?

Mother: YOU DONT PAY FOR ANYTHING IN MY HOUSE.

(I want to note here that they take 500$ of the money that I get for Disability because I have autism I had no clue about it until a few days ago when my brother came to me and told me)

After this, I didn't want to talk to my parents because I was quite frankly annoyed. I called a friend of mine talking about it. I didn't say anything particularly bad. I was just very angry, so I didn't think much of it and went to bed.

Today, I went down to ask again my parents tell me no for the reason of "you were yelling about us." I did not yell. I honestly was very quiet. I never said anything bad about them because they were in the house, and I said both sides. I was then accused of my boyfriend because to the friend I was telling, I said my friend once which is something I could never do to me it is very disgusting and I have fallen victim to my exes cheating on me. I haven't spoken to my parents much because we are all very petty.

I do feel like I'm the asshole but I wanna know what you all think am I the ass?

(Note I do infact see the boyfriend next week, so dww!)

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u/Simple-Trouble3586 — 7 days ago

AITA

Hi everyone, I'm back again, but this time is with a different story, I want to get off my chest myself. F 18 was in the care system in Ireland till last year when I turned 18

I'm in little to no contact with my bio parent from last week over a phone call and many other things.

The thing you need to know about my Dad m 44 is he is he's childish. If something doesn't, the way he wants, he has a fit. This is what went down on Friday

I was on the phone to him, and he brought up my brothers. I don't mind him bringing them up, but he did this because he thinks they should have paid for my mother's grave stone I told him it wasn't their duty they can help but it shouldn't be something they have to do. He starts screaming at me that I'm worng and I'm just a woman who doesn't know anything, then he brought up that I was S/A when I was younger telling me I deserved it.

After that , I said I hung up, and my boyfriend and parents have advised me not to talk to him I don't know what I should do now if I should block him or not

Reddit am I the ass for this??

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u/Simple-Trouble3586 — 8 days ago

AITB because I went on a rant about my parents.

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Hi everyone, so basically how this story starts is with my mother,my dad, and me F18, so yesterday afternoon I went down to my parents to ask if my boyfriend could come over they have never had a issue with him comeing over and I didn't think this would be a problem here how the covo went

Me: Can boyfriend come over?

My mother: You could go to over to his town?

Me: No, we both don't feel like it he's been working snice Friday. Can he please come here?

Mother: No.

Me:Why? It would only be for a few hours?

Mother: YOU DONT PAY FOR ANYTHING IN MY HOUSE.

After this, I didn't want to talk to my parents because I was quite frankly annoyed. I called a friend of mine talking about it. I didn't say anything particularly bad. I was just very angry, so I didn't think much of it and went to bed.

Today, I went down to ask again my parents tell me no for the reason of "you were yelling about us." I did not yell. I honestly was really quiet. My mother also assumed I was cheating on my boyfriend, which I wouldn't ever do to anyone as I think cheating is disgusting, and she also said I was making myself the victim and being dramatic and selfish. Im a very honest person. I wouldn't lie about anyone or anything. I say things how they are, and lastly, she told me she wished i was never her child because no one could ever want me.

For anyone wondering dw I will see him next week

I do infact have more stories about my parents, mostly my mother, and if any of the spelling isn't good, I'm sorry I have dyslexia and I'm not really that good at typing. Please let me know if I was ass as I feel like I was one I want to say as well. I well autism i will act childish sometimes and immature.

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u/Simple-Trouble3586 — 8 days ago

AITA because I went on a rant about my parents

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Hi everyone, so basically how this story starts is with my mother,my dad, and me F18, so yesterday afternoon I went down to my parents to ask if my boyfriend could come over they have never had a issue with him comeing over and I didn't think this would be a problem here how the covo went

Me: Can boyfriend come over?

My mother: You could go to over town?

Me: No, we both don't feel like it he's been working snice Friday. Can he please come here?

Mother: No.

Me:Why? It would only be for a few hours?

Mother: YOU DONT PAY FOR ANYTHING IN MY HOUSE.

After this, I didn't want to talk to my parents because I was quite frankly annoyed. I called a friend of mine talking about it. I didn't say anything particularly bad. I was just very angry, so I didn't think much of it and went to bed.

Today, I went down to ask again my parents tell me no for the reason of "you were yelling about us." I did not yell. I honestly was really quiet. My mother also assumed I was cheating on my boyfriend, which I wouldn't ever do to anyone as I think cheating is disgusting, and she also said I was making myself the victim and being dramatic and selfish. Im a very honest person. I wouldn't lie about anyone or anything. I say things how they are.

For anyone wondering dw I will see him next week

I do infact have more stories about my parents, mostly my mother, and if any of the spelling isn't good, I'm sorry I have dyslexia and I'm not really that good at typing. Please let me know if I was ass and have a good day!

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u/Simple-Trouble3586 — 9 days ago