u/Sleepy_head_30

▲ 6 r/Kerala

Is anyone else having serious issues with Delhivery deliveries lately?

My Amazon orders have always been shipped through Delhivery, and until about a month ago, I never had any problems. Lately, though, every package reaches the nearest hub but just sits there, with the tracking status citing "network issues." I end up having to raise a complaint and follow up for days before the package is finally delivered.

And their customer service? It's not bad, it's practically non-existent. The only option is to request a callback, which never happens. I've also reported the issue to Amazon multiple times, but nothing seems to have changed.

Is anyone else experiencing the same problem, or is it just me?

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u/Sleepy_head_30 — 2 days ago

Menstrual cup usage as a beginner

Just got myself a menstrual cup. What are some things you wish you knew before you started using one? Also, how do you sterilse them?

Thanks in advance!

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u/Sleepy_head_30 — 6 days ago

A thought on being addressed as edi/ eda

What's your take on being called edi/ eda by someone?

I recently came across an instagram reel explaining why women usually tend to have an aversion towards being called edi. I have never really liked being called edi. Eda, for some reason feels different, and works for me.

Curious to know what others think about this.

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u/Sleepy_head_30 — 22 days ago

Fixed my sleep schedule

I have come across few posts where people shared how they are struggling with sleep. I have been through the same phase at one point.

So, to anyone who thinks they will never be able to fix their sleep, I just want to tell you that it is possible. It takes patience, consistency and efforts, but it is possible.

Here are few things that helped me:

  1. Cut down my instgram usage. I hardly spend more than 10 minutes a day on reels

  2. Slowly brought my bed time closer

  3. Started therapy, helped me manage my stress better

  4. Made sure I stayed hydrated throughout the day

  5. Began giving myself a head/ hair massage before going to bed

Good night people :)

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u/Sleepy_head_30 — 24 days ago
▲ 173 r/Coconaad

Catcalling is not okay!

I was on a trip to Varkala this weekend. I was wearing a halter neck top with a denim short, was feeling pretty in the outfit, confident that I looked good. My friends and I were sitting by the beach in the evening and my god! The number of whistles and catcalls we had to endure! They had a look of satisfaction on their faces, as if they had achieved something. Even when we looked at them, they didn't stop. We felt helpless because we were pretty sure even if we confronted them, they could easily deny considering the place was crowded.

Is this what we have come to as a society? What makes someone find joy in making another person uncomfortable? These weren’t elderly men, they were men in their 20s and 30s.

At that moment, I didn’t let it affect me too much. I tried to brush it off and continue enjoying the trip. But now that I’m back, I keep thinking about it. It’s unsettling how a few people can take away a happy memory.

How do you move past experiences like this?

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u/Sleepy_head_30 — 26 days ago

And the homework era begins

Second day of Pre KG and my nephew comes back home with this list of homework 😂. Had a fun time watching his mom trying to teach him the rhyme. Can't believe such tiny humans got such assignments. What's your first memory of school?

u/Sleepy_head_30 — 28 days ago

Diamond paintings by chechi 🎨

Few diamond painting works by my chechi ❤️✨ She spends hours on it at a stretch, takes weeks to finish one piece. I wish I had 1% of her patience and dedication 🫠

u/Sleepy_head_30 — 1 month ago

The evenings I miss

Another moody evening, and I'm staring at the paadam. My chechi and I used to spend evenings there, watching the sunset and gossipping. The aatukattil on the balcony, this view, and the peace that came with it are some of the things I miss the most whenever I’m away from home. My gallery used to be overflowing with paadam pictures.

I wish I could always come back to this view after a long day at work.

u/Sleepy_head_30 — 1 month ago

Periods & Emotional breakdown

To the girls of Coconaad - how do you deal with getting overly emotional right before or during your periods? Lately, I’ve noticed that I become extremely sensitive around that time, almost constantly on the verge of tears. And then the moment my periods start, I’m just there like, “Ahhh! Now it all makes sense". Dark chocolate seems to be the only thing that helps me a bit. Please let me know what helps you.

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u/Sleepy_head_30 — 2 months ago

My nose piercing journey

Went to Thrissur pooram exhibition today just to get hold of few jewellery pieces, ended up finding these beauties 🥰

But this post is not about that. It's about my nose piercing journey.

I’d had my nose pierced on the left side for years, but a few months ago, I decided I wanted it on the right instead. So I took out the left nose pin and got the right side pierced, fully aware that the old piercing would probably take forever to close - if it ever did that is.

A few days later, the new piercing started showing signs of infection, so I had to remove it. I was suddenly walking around with two visible nose piercing holes.

Today, I decided to give the right side another shot and got it pierced again. I'm hoping the piercing heals soon. Now I’ve got an actual nose pin on the right and a press-on one on the left. A double nose pin look was never on my cards, but here I am 🌞

u/Sleepy_head_30 — 2 months ago

A small memory that stayed; what's the sweetest thing you've done for your partner?

This memory suddenly hit me out of nowhere. Back when my ex and I were together, we went to watch Ilaveezha Poonchira movie in theatres. He's not a malayali, doesn't understand a word of malayalam, so we chose a theatre that usually screens movies with English subtitles. Only after the movie started did we realise there weren't any subtitles at all. So for the entirety of the movie, I quietly translated every dialogue to him (made sure not to distrub the people around us). The movie didn't have much dialogues, if I remember correctly. Still, llooking back at it now, I feel it was kind of adorable. It's funny how the memories still stay even when the person is no longer part of your life.

What’s a small thing you once did for your significant other that still feels special when you think about it now?

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u/Sleepy_head_30 — 2 months ago

Tiny steps

Stumbled upon this old clip of my nephew from when he had just learned to walk. Those little legs trying so hard to walk in a straight line while wobbling everywhere. So freaking cute 🫠❤️

u/Sleepy_head_30 — 2 months ago