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Opinions on the spa at Kalahari?

I don’t expect some 5 star out of this world experience but I was wondering if it’s worth it at all? Was looking to get a facial and massage

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u/Slow-Championship-28 — 13 days ago
▲ 2 r/HairDye

Is there a way to achieve this color without bleach?

First picture is obviously me and the rest are close to the color I want to achieve. Is there any way possible to achieve even a slighter lift without bleach?

u/Slow-Championship-28 — 3 months ago
▲ 2 r/TarotCards+1 crossposts

How does he feel/ is reconciliation worth it?

First spread: “what are his feelings for me?”
Second spread “what will my life look like if I pursue reconciliation?”

Context: he pursued me two years ago even though he was married and I was in a relationship. Things went on the next two years with a lot of initiating and retracting and ended with me resenting him and distancing myself and ending my relationship.

We were still forced to see each other daily. I was cordial but placed the boundary to “never speak to me about anything or initiate anything unless you’re sure, going to change your situation”

Lately the chemistry and banter has returned and it felt like how things used to be. And I can’t stop thinking about it. Idk if he changed his situation because I haven’t asked. Still keeping my guard up. Obviously I know the situation shouldn’t have started in the first place but a lot of exceptional circumstances made things messy.

My take on the first set of cards is that he’s still attracted and thinks about me but is too scared to leave his situation and scared to make any changes in his life.

My take on the second set is that nothing will change and the cycle will repeat itself if reconciliation happens. He probably didn’t leave his situation and probably never will and will forever stay stagnant.

Thoughts? Opinions?

u/Slow-Championship-28 — 3 months ago
▲ 17 r/AutismInWomen

Terrified of change but constantly longing for it

I used to be really impulsive and confident in my decisions. Whether they were good or bad I was able to reflect on it quickly and tell myself and everyone “oh well whatever happens, happens. I will find out for myself and see it through”

I’m too scared now. I’ve hit rock bottom in the past due to bad decisions but now I finally have a semblance of being “adjusted”.

I’ve been at my current job for five years. Prior to that- I couldn’t hold a job for more than 5 months. However, this job has completely taken everything I have from me. Being burnt out doesn’t even do it justice. I’ve been wanting to quit for the last two years. After getting attacked physically at work (I work with younger special needs kids) and dealing with grief in the midst of it all and seeing how unfair the higher ups treat us and care so little about the kids- I know I can’t do it anymore. I cry almost everyday. I’m a shell of my former self. 29 going on 70 because I work and come home to shower eat sit in the dark wake up work- repeat.

I have no energy left. I get incredibly angry at any injustices and I know that won’t end at this job. I know I’ll find something wrong at the next. But I know I need to leave to save myself. Everyone in my life agrees that I need to get out. But why is it so scary?! Why can’t I just be uncomfortable with the unknown

I’ve stayed in relationships, jobs, friendships that I knew weren’t good for me due to the routine and predictability of just knowing what to expect. How do I break this cycle? How do I get more courageous and stop living in fear? I want to LIVE

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u/Slow-Championship-28 — 4 months ago
▲ 1 r/booksuggestions

Used to love ya novels. Looking for more adult versions from authors I loved:

I was a HUGE Sarah Dessen fan. Read all her books released up until 2015. Also loved Mermaid Park by Beth Mayall, Snowed In by Rachel Hawthorne, Looking For Alaska by John Green, Story of a Girl by Sara Zarr, and Every Last Word by Tamara Ireland.

Looking for books with similar themes and writing.
I know some deal with more serious issues and some are more lighthearted but a mix of both would be ideal.

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u/Slow-Championship-28 — 4 months ago
▲ 1 r/TheMoneyGuy

Marcus vs Citibank?

These seem to be the most consistent amongst reliable savings accounts that I’ve seen. Any major pros/cons anyone has experience with? Not poor and not a millionaire just trying to gain consistent security

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u/Slow-Championship-28 — 5 months ago