u/Smooth_Lavishness_52

Hi! My girlfriend recently moved to Bologna for university and doesn’t really know many people in the city yet. She has met some people at uni, but she’d really love to make some female friends outside of her university circle too :)
A little about her: she’s smart, hardworking and studies a lot, but she’s also really social and loves meeting new people. She’s a huge cat lover, absolutely loves coffee and cute cafés, going for walks, exploring new places, and having nice conversations.
She’s not really into the bar/party scene, so she’d especially love to meet girls who are more into coffee dates, studying together, exploring Bologna, chilling, shopping, or just hanging out and talking.
She’s genuinely excited to make some good friends and have her own little circle in Bologna. 🫶
If you’re a girl around her age living or studying in Bologna and this sounds like your vibe too, feel free to DM me and I can connect you two! :)

Ciao a tutti,
sono uno studente internazionale attualmente immatricolato al corso di laurea in Ingegneria Civile presso l’Università di Bologna.
Ho sostenuto un nuovo TOLC-I il 29 luglio 2026 e vorrei che venisse considerato questo nuovo risultato. Sto quindi cercando di capire se sia possibile aggiornare il risultato del TOLC-I nella mia carriera attuale senza effettuare la rinuncia agli studi.
Nel caso in cui ciò non fosse possibile, potrei fare la rinuncia agli studi e poi immatricolarmi nuovamente allo stesso corso di Ingegneria Civile, utilizzando il risultato del TOLC-I sostenuto il 29 luglio 2026?
Qualcuno ha già effettuato una rinuncia e una nuova immatricolazione nello stesso corso presso Unibo?
In particolare, vorrei sapere:
se è possibile iscriversi nuovamente allo stesso corso dal quale ci si è ritirati;
quanto tempo serve affinché la rinuncia venga accettata;

se è possibile effettuare la nuova immatricolazione subito dopo la rinuncia;

se il nuovo TOLC-I viene acquisito automaticamente;

se questa procedura può creare problemi a uno studente internazionale con le procedure di Universitaly, visto o permesso di soggiorno.
Ho già contattato la Segreteria e sto aspettando una risposta, ma vorrei conoscere anche l’esperienza di qualcuno che si è trovato in una situazione simile.
Grazie in anticipo!

Hallo zusammen,
ich plane, ein größeres Webprojekt zu entwickeln und würde gerne eure Meinung zum Tech-Stack und zur Architektur hören, bevor ich anfange.
Die Anwendung soll unter anderem folgende Funktionen bieten:
Benutzeranmeldung und Authentifizierung
Community-/Forum-Funktionen (Beiträge, Kommentare, Upvotes)
Datei-Uploads
Suche
Benachrichtigungen
Benutzerprofile
Später eventuell ein integriertes Messaging-System
Langfristig auch eine Mobile-App
Ich lerne aktuell noch und suche deshalb einen modernen Tech-Stack, der sowohl anfängerfreundlich als auch langfristig skalierbar ist.
Momentan überlege ich, Folgendes zu verwenden:
Next.js
TypeScript
NestJS (oder zunächst nur Next.js als Full-Stack)
PostgreSQL
Prisma
Supabase (Auth, Storage und eventuell Realtime)
React Native mit Expo für die spätere App

Meine Fragen:

Würdet ihr diesen Stack empfehlen?
Sollte ich direkt Frontend und Backend trennen oder zunächst alles mit Next.js entwickeln?
Würdet ihr Supabase verwenden oder eher eine andere Lösung?
Welche Frameworks oder Tools würdet ihr stattdessen empfehlen?
Welche typischen Fehler machen Anfänger bei größeren Projekten?
Wenn ihr heute ein neues Projekt starten würdet, welchen Stack würdet ihr wählen – und warum?
Ich freue mich über jede Empfehlung oder Erfahrung. Vielen Dank!

Hi everyone,
I’m a 22-year-old guy, and my girlfriend is 20. We’ve been together for about two years.
Ever since the first day I met her, I’ve felt the same amount of love and excitement toward her. Honestly, it even feels like my love keeps growing. I always want to talk to her, spend time with her, and she’s enough for me. I love her deeply. She’s become part of my daily routine, my comfort person, and someone I genuinely want to fight for so we can stay together.
The thing is, I’ve noticed that I seem to have this “love energy” all the time. I’m always ready to talk to her, show affection, and exchange those loving feelings every day.
But with her, it feels different sometimes. It’s not that she’s cold or anything, but she seems to go through phases. Sometimes she treats the relationship more like a normal, comfortable part of life, while I’m always in that “I want us to keep expressing love and affection every day” mindset.
So my question is: Is this normal?
Am I overthinking when I sometimes worry that maybe her feelings have become weaker, or is it normal for people to express love differently over time? Sometimes I get anxious and wonder if the difference in our energy means something is wrong, even though nothing specific has happened.
I’d appreciate hearing from people who have been in long-term relationships.

TL;DR: I’m a 22M who’s been with my 20F girlfriend for 2 years. My love and desire to talk to her feel just as strong every day, while she seems to go through phases where the relationship feels more like a comfortable routine. Is this normal, or am I overthinking and worrying that her feelings have faded?