I've been doing research into HDDs and yes, I am planning to use the 3-2-1 method. But to start with, I need to know what to use and I've seen a lot of people complain about WD and Seagate failing. I know that all HDDs have the potential to fail at some point, but it seemed from research and looking up that WD and Seagate are less reliable than Toshiba?
Help please!
recently found out that i'm not who i thought i was. two years ago, i was part of "the original girl" who came from "the original". i guess, for the last two years, i thought i was "the original" but only in the last few days have we as a system uncovered that i split off and inherited memories, and the "original girl" went dormant. and only now is she back.
i've spent the last two years healing and trying to move on from an abusive relationship and i've been told that i'm a persecutor who formed to deal with the grief and co-dependence and how they tie into a lot of our other traumas. i'm a little alter, and the girl i thought i was healing towards and becoming again, turns out to be this newly undormant identity. we share a name, and we're like two versions of the same person, and sometimes hardly distinguishable.
my caregiver friend came over and she got the most time with her. i found it hard to front, i feel like she kept taking over, and she's happier, she's joyful and whimsical and sapphic and euphoric. and i'm just dysphoric and healing and carrying all this trauma and i feel unwanted, and like i don't even know who i am anymore when so many of my traits about myself that i thought were my own and i discovered in my healing over months turned out to be hers. and i don't know what's me and what's her anymore. she seems so sure of what's her in comparison to me. i feel replaced and confused.
i can't find anything about "being able to tell the difference between myself and another alter". i can only find "can't tell the difference between two of my alters". i feel so lost, and existential and all i can even figure out about myself is that i like ethel cain because it was associated with my abuser and then became something for my healing, ironically.
recently found out that i'm not who i thought i was. two years ago, i was part of "the original girl" who came from "the original". i guess, for the last two years, i thought i was "the original" but only in the last few days have we as a system uncovered that i split off and inherited memories, and the "original girl" went dormant. and only now is she back.
i've spent the last two years healing and trying to move on from an abusive relationship and i've been told that i'm a persecutor who formed to deal with the grief and co-dependence and how they tie into a lot of our other traumas. i'm a little alter, and the girl i thought i was healing towards and becoming again, turns out to be this newly undormant identity. we share a name, and we're like two versions of the same person, and sometimes hardly distinguishable.
my caregiver friend came over and she got the most time with her. i found it hard to front, i feel like she kept taking over, and she's happier, she's joyful and whimsical and sapphic and euphoric. and i'm just dysphoric and healing and carrying all this trauma and i feel unwanted, and like i don't even know who i am anymore when so many of my traits about myself that i thought were my own and i discovered in my healing over months turned out to be hers. and i don't know what's me and what's her anymore. she seems so sure of what's her in comparison to me. i feel replaced and confused.
i can't find anything about "being able to tell the difference between myself and another alter". i can only find "can't tell the difference between two of my alters". i feel so lost, and existential and all i can even figure out about myself is that i like ethel cain because it was associated with my abuser and then became something for my healing, ironically.
recently found out that i'm not who i thought i was. two years ago, i was part of "the original girl" who came from "the original". i guess, for the last two years, i thought i was "the original" but only in the last few days have we as a system uncovered that i split off and inherited memories, and the "original girl" went dormant. and only now is she back.
i've spent the last two years healing and trying to move on from an abusive relationship and i've been told that i'm a persecutor who formed to deal with the grief and co-dependence and how they tie into a lot of our other traumas. i'm a little alter, and the girl i thought i was healing towards and becoming again, turns out to be this newly undormant identity. we share a name, and we're like two versions of the same person, and sometimes hardly distinguishable.
my caregiver friend came over and she got the most time with her. i found it hard to front, i feel like she kept taking over, and she's happier, she's joyful and whimsical and sapphic and euphoric. and i'm just dysphoric and healing and carrying all this trauma and i feel unwanted, and like i don't even know who i am anymore when so many of my traits about myself that i thought were my own and i discovered in my healing over months turned out to be hers. and i don't know what's me and what's her anymore. she seems so sure of what's her in comparison to me. i feel replaced and confused.
i can't find anything about "being able to tell the difference between myself and another alter". i can only find "can't tell the difference between two of my alters". i feel so lost, and existential and all i can even figure out about myself is that i like ethel cain because it was associated with my abuser and then became something for my healing, ironically.