I believe they are cold water agates! (Correct me if I am wrong.) There weights are 1.144 lbs, 0.961 lbs, 2.251 lbs and 0.750 lbs.
Found in a body of water in southeast MN. I was absolutely ecstatic when I found them. (They were also a beast to clean.)
I found it in a rock bed in central MN. 🙂
Food: Iced coffee, tomato tofu, jasmin rice and avocado.
8 months ago my bf ended up in the hospital due to his mental health. He told me things that made me fear for his life. I practically forced him to go.
He's been out for around 7 months in DBT therapy, but besides that has done little to nothing to improve his situation.
He barely cooks, cleans, schedules, and does not work or activity looking for employment. If he does do any of those, he needs constant reminders where things go and exactly how to do it or leaves it until I just can't ignore it anymore. He no longer does nice things for me, and when he does he needs you to spell it out to the T. When I told him that's not normal, he said that he can't read my mind.
I've had more fights and crying than I ever care to admit. I've tried telling him that I cannot financially support both of us like this anymore, and he needs a job. He insists that he couldn't possibly get a job because of his mental health, and he's doing his best. I currently work a full time job, and now looking for a part time job for the weekends. He's thousands in debt, banking account currently in the negative, and his family finally had enough and told him they are no longer going to help with his bills.
He has constant ups and downs because of his diagnoses, having one day be him being sweet, kind and understanding and the next yelling at me to get off his back about things. I know it's due to his mental health, but deep down it feels like he's using it as a out for his responsibilities.
I've tried breaking up with him twice already. He goes from sorry to angry fast. Telling me I am stabbing him in the back, and this is what he gets for helping me all these years, and I've been using him this whole time. We have a lease together and he knows that I can not afford to move out, and has told me he would take me to court since it's his apartment too. Not to mention we have a cat together. (That I solely am responsible to take care of.) I'm practically trapped having him stay for free here until November.
Even his family has told him that he needs a job and if he keeps treating me this way, he's going to lose me.
Due to past stuff, I do not really have anyone to go to or talk about this stuff with besides my therapist that I can’t afford. To say I am angry, bitter and resentful would be a complete understatement. I have practically trapped myself and I am completely lost.
As someone who grew up poor, I always use every drop and then shake it with water before throwing. 😭
My bf and me celebrated our anniversary with a 4 day camping trip in northern MN. These are all the agates we where able to find! I included pictures of my favorites.