u/Some-Building5985

(23F) so i have been single for a really long time (by choice) cause i haven’t met a single guy who is willing to treat me nicely all the guys i have been meeting these days dont really wanna put much effort into relationships or dating and just wanna be fwb or hook up on and off and i am kinda tired of hook up culture since i have already experienced that in my college days and i just cannot get physical with someone unless i like the person a lot or have some sort of attraction but yeah one night stands and hook ups arent working at all for me these days and i do not like using dating apps as well cause i feel like everyone just pretends to be fake to impress each other or they just simply don’t reply to you after a while. also i wouldn’t consider myself really fucking pretty/gorg but im somewhat decent looking and i do get hit on by guys when i go out but idk i just never entertain them cause most of them seen creepy or they are not my type

I have noticed that a lot of people in school/university judge a certain person so much for no reason when they don’t even know them. For example I have a friend who is a bit reserved and do not talk to people unless they actually wanna be friends w them or have some work which is understandable cause not everyone is very social and prefer to have very less friends in university.

Now this person gets judged a lot for bs reason like the way they walk or how they dont talk to a lot of people or how they are always seen alone. So I don’t get it why do people judge someone so much? Also this person has haters as well who they don’t even know or have never interacted with which is very weird cause why would you hate someone for no reason? and when I say never interacted it means never even said Hi Hello or any sort of convo. I really wanna what do you all think about this and why does it happen?

I have noticed that a lot of people in school/university judge a certain person so much for no reason when they don’t even know them. For example I have a friend who is a bit reserved and do not talk to people unless they actually wanna be friends w them or have some work which is understandable cause not everyone is very social and prefer to have very less friends in university.

Now this person gets judged a lot for bs reason like the way they walk or how they dont talk to a lot of people or how they are always seen alone. So I don’t get it why do people judge someone so much? Also this person has haters as well who they don’t even know or have never interacted with which is very weird cause why would you hate someone for no reason? and when I say never interacted it means never even said Hi Hello or any sort of convo. I really wanna what do you all think about this and why does it happen?