So what should I do and bring. What time should I get there. Should I drive or have someone to drive me there. I’ll be staying near Sepang
This awesome driver brave through the heavy rain to deliver my lunch and I can’t tip more than rm1? Tf?!
So me and my talking stage have been talking for 2 months now. Except that we text more than we talk in person. I think he’s a good person but also very socially awkward. I honestly feel like giving up already. Since he said he values communication and whatnot and that he wants us to be ourselves when we’re together but he’s doing the complete opposite. He’s quiet and didn’t even try to start a conversation. So idk if he’s just not interested or just damn clueless on how to start a conversation
I (33F) have never been in a relationship so I don't know what to expect or if my expectations are too high. I've been talking to a guy (30M) for almost 2 months now. We texted a lot even before we met, which is actually a bit draining for me. But I continued anyway cause otherwise how would we get to know each other, right?
He's an only child and it's only him and his mom. He doesn't have any friends to hangout with and I have to say, I pity him a bit. He's socially awkward but I can see that he's trying. The thing is, even though we text a lot, he didn't seem to be curious about me. Worst, he even forgot things I already told him. Personal stuff like my family background. To me, that's an important information to remember about someone that you're romantically involved with. We're not in a relationship yet but we both made it clear that we're getting to know each other with the intention of being in a relationship.
At this point, we already argued twice over texts. We made up and when we meet in person he never brought the issues up. Both times, the arguments started cause he forgot things I told him. It probably is a minor issue for some people, but to me, it screams "I don't care about you". When I told him how I felt, he got worked up and defensive. Saying he's got feelings too. And that it was an honest mistake that he forgot things. That I picked on his insecurity. He said he appreciates communcation but every single time I told him how I feel, he tried to shift the blame to me.
Last weekend, we went hiking and my friends wanted to come along. This is the first time I've ever introduce any guy that I'm talking to, to my friends. Instead of trying to overcome his social awkwardness, he stayed quiet, for hours. He just said hi to my friends then quiet. Also, I always have to be the one who comes up with plans on where to hike. Yes, he just started hiking so he wanted to follow me but I think it doesn't hurt if he also try to do some research on where would be our next hiking spot.
Overall, all 4 dates were awkward. And I feel like I have to mother him sometimes. I always have to tell him what I think most people would do as a common sense. He's emotional, defensive, and awkward. What I like about him, he cares about orderliness. Other than that, I feel tired of this. But am I overreacting cause I feel like this could be a me problem too. That my expectations are too high. What should I do now? I'm really confuse.
I’ve been anxious and restless and this bro just did the simplest thing but it made my day. Not a single drop of my coffees spilled!
I know we’re not perfect but how much should we tolerate? WHAT should be tolerated? For how long? What are the boundaries?
I’m currently talking to a guy and he’s kinda nice but I don’t think he’s paying attention to what I said. And I hate having to tell people the same thing over and over again. So should I tell him again and hope that he’ll change? I don’t think people change that easily though. I already told him how I felt and he said that it’s a genuine mistake from his part. But to me he seems to not like me enough to stay curious.
So I posted this in r/malaysia with health flair and still removed saying it’s not relevant. C*ba* fck your mother r/malaysia mods!
Wednesday last week on my way to work a guy who looked like an Arab or Middle Eastern-ish stopped me. I thought he was gonna ask for directions so I stopped. Then he told me he needed to go to the hospital but had no money to pay for the treatment. Even showed me his injury which looked disgusting af. Told him I got no cash and he insisted that I transferred him through tng to which I said no and gave an excuse that payday isn’t until next week (which is true 🥲). Injury looked so real I almost fell for it.
Today I saw him again. By the way he was talking, seems like he was asking for money. Again. And his injured hand is now all cured with no scars. I should’ve intervened and said something but I’m sore and feverish and haven’t had my morning coffee. I think the guy he stopped didn’t give him anything either cause I looked back and the guy he stopped was already walking and was only a few steps away from me.
Oh he even said something “we’re muslim we should help each other”. Disgusting how he use Islam to scam people. Definitely gonna call him out if I ever see him again. Be careful yall.