u/SpaceBar_5

Do you need specific proof? I’m sixteen so I can’t really get that. Do you need to have had enough crushes? Or have waited long enough?

I’m a teenager and identify as queer, liking all genders and having a preference towards androgynous people. How do I know that that’s real, and not just something I’ve been influenced by media to be. Is there a method of proof?

I’m sixteen. Is four years long enough to be sure I’m correct in my sexuality?

For context, I have had crushes on both girls and boys, some of them for more than a couple years. But other than that, I’m mostly attracted to genderqueer people. I’m off and on trying to convince myself I’m straight, but I feel like I’m just losing the battle over and over. What do you think?

I (16F) have been pretty certain in my identity as queer for years, but now I’m at the point where I want to come out I’m suddenly terrified, feeling ill and wrong. Is this because I’m not actually queer and I’m afraid of lying? Or because I am queer and scared of the reaction. What should I do?