r/QuestioningTeens

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Questioning

I doubt I am trans and I've never really struggled with gender identity to the extent I assume trans people have. There are ups and downs to being a man but in the end of the day I enjoy being a man. However I sometimes get the idea of looking very feminine like straight up passing without intent of being "treated" like a women just a man who looks like a woman? I'm honestly not entirely sure and enjoyed the idea of having a very feminine face with a masculine muscular body however I recently thought about having breasts and it's a little confusing. I can see myself enjoying being both a man and a woman in some regards but in others not so much. Any advice or comments on these thoughts?

p.s. idk if this adds significance but I've always enjoyed a trope or style of gender role reversal with a house husband and a working wife or other things men traditionally do being done by women and vice versa.

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u/hotjuicysteam — 17 hours ago

haii!

im a 14 gay teen, and i suck at making friends, does anyone have any advice?

message me if you want! dont be older than at leats one yera gap of me

(if you are older, dont treat me like a baby, i know what im doing)

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u/Sh4de_Agender — 20 hours ago
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Do i like women??

Im a woman who has always had eyes for other girls since i can remember, guys didnt cross my mind till i found out that was the norm, now im christian and was dating a pastors son for over two years and im starting to question it again, do i like women??

im religious and im also surrounded by other religious people and have nobody to talk with because i feel very ashamed as it goes against my religion, but i could never imagine myself with a man like ever, ive dated all sorts of people and the only relationships that worked out best and made me the happiest were the ones with women.

i am very confused right now and i dont know what to think, i feel so guilty for even thinking like this but i cant stop and i cant tell anybody about this because ill be shunned and pushed aside.

Im not asking for answers i just want to feel understood in a way, share similar stories please and thank you.

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u/Mammoth-Pressure-893 — 3 days ago
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I used to be obese and I felt awful. I'm doing much better now, but I have an honest question for you.

Hey everyone! I'm F19, and a few years ago, when I was a teenager, I was obese.

I decided to take control of my lifen not because I hated my body, but because I wanted to be healthier and feel stronger. I started going to the gym, gradually changed my habits, and today I'm really proud of how far I've come.

The two photos show where I am now. They're both recent. I'm not really comfortable sharing an "before" picture. I've lost a lot of weight, but I didn't lose my curves. I guess that's just how my body is naturally built. I also have a medical condition called breast hypertrophy, along with galactorrhea, that I've had since puberty. It's probably not that important to mention, but it explains why I still have a large chest.

What's sometimes difficult isn't my body itselfn it's the way other people react to it. Pretty often when I'm out, I notice people staring or overhear conversations that make me feel like I'm being watched. And sometimes it's a lot worse than just staring. Ladies, you probably know what I mean. The thing is, I'm genuinely not trying to draw attention to myself. Most of the time I'm just wearing a T-shirt and pants. But when summer comes around and I wear lighter and shorter clothes or go out for a run, the staring gets even worse.

I'm not ashamed of my body. Quite the opposite, I'm proud of everything it represents and all the hard work it took to get here. But sometimes I wonder if I'm the only one who feels this way.

So I'd really like your honest opinion.

If you saw me walking down the street, would you just see me as another person? Or would you think I was "showing too much," even though that's absolutely not my intention?

For context, I haven't had breast reduction or augmentation surgery. This is just how my body naturally is, and it's not something I can really change.

I'm genuinely curious about your first impressions, whether they're positive or negative. Please just keep it respectful.

https://preview.redd.it/ctta35ccyrah1.jpg?width=532&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=14cc99f4f54c8dd30899387bd7be230d472cef25

https://preview.redd.it/ec4gg5ccyrah1.jpg?width=1152&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e0dbfe8dab78bb596b5b1e757d593357dd612e03

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u/Typical-Papaya6706 — 4 days ago

Please read this and share your thoughts

I (M19) have been wondering this for a while and I feel as if it will ruin all my relationships with everyone around me I have recently been watching a lot of porn I mean like hardcore gay porn and I’m slowly feeling myself become more attracted to cock and a dominant woman who would peg me I’m just wondering this as I also like women and still feel urges like that towards them I also sometimes feel like a woman and im not but it’s like I want to have a pussy and get pinned down but I don’t know what do you guys think because I still like straight porn too I feel like I’m either transgender, gay, bisexual, or that I just want a dominant woman please help me everyone
(Thanks).

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u/wondering5556 — 12 days ago
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Curious (plz answer) [AFAB 16]

So like, I'm cisgender Female (AFAB), and pansexual

And I just dunno what u call this at this point

I'm like, I wanna be a boy, yk, but I'm female, and I look female

I haven't changed anything yet like in looks yk cuz I'm not ready to come out to my parents (and I'm a teen below 18 so if I do they're prolly gonna disown me jkjk but yk)

So I used to be Agender, and uh am I like demiboy?

And I'm planning to transition to trans-male in the future

Uh my pronouns are they/he/her/it

I'm fine with any pronouns

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u/Interesting-Wolf-700 — 12 days ago