u/Spare_Caregiver_6991

(Take this detail however you want but I have bpd and he is very most likely autistic)

For context we've been fighting a bit lately about the fact that I don't feel loved enough and he keeps saying that we both know he's not enough for me..

I don't want it to be true but the reality is that : I am a hard working person, proud of what she does, party animal, very social. While my boyfriend is very introverted, almost addicted to video games, never goes out and got deeply depressed without ever wanting to help himself however much I would talk and beg to him..

I love him deeply, we've had a wonderful 3 years and 3 cats together.. We've also had some conversations on opening the relationship because I was frank with him and told him that I did cheat on my last relationship because I need new things and adventure (he was the same way has my current boyfriend).
He is a kind of open to it but I just really don't know how would that work..

I met someone at work this week and it's making me rethink all of this because of the last weeks and the fact that i met practically what I need..
I really do not want to hurt him but I am getting tired and need a new start.

Any advice from men or women would be helpful thank you very much:(

(Take this detail however you want but I have bpd and he is very most likely autistic)

For context we've been fighting a bit lately about the fact that I don't feel loved enough and he keeps saying that we both know he's not enough for me..

I don't want it to be true but the reality is that : I am a hard working person, proud of what she does, party animal, very social. While my boyfriend is very introverted, almost addicted to video games, never goes out and got deeply depressed without ever wanting to help himself however much I would talk and beg to him..

I love him deeply, we've had a wonderful 3 years and 3 cats together.. We've also had some conversations on opening the relationship because I was frank with him and told him that I did cheat on my last relationship because I need new things and adventure (he was the same way has my current boyfriend).
He is a kind of open to it but I just really don't know how would that work..

I met someone at work this week and it's making me rethink all of this because of the last weeks and the fact that i met practically what I need..
I really do not want to hurt him but I am getting tired and need a new start.

Any advice from men or women would be helpful thank you very much:(

(Take this detail however you want but I have bpd and he is very most likely autistic)

For context we've been fighting a bit lately about the fact that I don't feel loved enough and he keeps saying that we both know he's not enough for me..

I don't want it to be true but the reality is that : I am a hard working person, proud of what she does, party animal, very social. While my boyfriend is very introverted, almost addicted to video games, never goes out and got deeply depressed without ever wanting to help himself however much I would talk and beg to him..

I love him deeply, we've had a wonderful 3 years and 3 cats together.. We've also had some conversations on opening the relationship because I was frank with him and told him that I did cheat on my last relationship because I need new things and adventure (he was the same way has my current boyfriend).
He is a kind of open to it but I just really don't know how would that work..

I met someone at work this week and it's making me rethink all of this because of the last weeks and the fact that i met practically what I need..
I really do not want to hurt him but I am getting tired and need a new start.

Any advice from men or women would be helpful thank you very much:(