▲ 1.5k r/MatingAdvice+1 crossposts

"Get off the apps, bro" and go where?

I don't think it's any secret that dating apps are effectively useless for even average-looking men. I (23M) managed to go a full month on Hinge without one incoming like. You'll hear from both men and women that you should get off the apps and shoot your shot in person... but as far as I'm aware, there just aren't any feasible/acceptable places to do so.

Since it was pointed out to me a year ago, I have been actively noticing that young single women do not go out into public. I can go into town shopping for a couple hours and not see one woman within my age range that isn't also accompanied by a man.

I'm sure as hell not going to be the guy trying to hit on a girl at her place of employment, but as far as I can tell, that's the only place young women go outside their homes. Volunteering events? Every event I attend, the next youngest woman is twice/thrice my age. Bars? I don't drink, and am not looking to match with someone who frequently does so. Hobby events? Either don't exist near me or aren't for hobbies that'd attract a mix of both genders. I'm not going to pretend to be interested in salsa dancing as an excuse to meet women.

What else actually exists now outside of dating apps that would facilitate in-person meeting?

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u/Specialist-Option351 — 19 days ago
▲ 179 r/waspaganda+1 crossposts

Tool use in insects

Was watching a thread-wasted sand wasp (Ammophila procera) fill in her nest, and was surprised when she finally had it level, flew a foot away, and picked up a small rock to use as a masher to compress the sand and hide where she had dug.

Was kinda disappointed to find out this example of tool use in insects is already pretty well-known 😅

u/Specialist-Option351 — 2 months ago

I've just been informed I look twice my age

Welp, I made a post on r/lookyourbest and was informed with obvious consensus that my glasses, in part, make me look 40. Disheartening, clearly I ought to do something about it. Y'all have any advise to help me out?

u/Specialist-Option351 — 2 months ago

22M - Don't know how much I can do

I've never been all too concerned about my appearance til recently. Downloaded a dating app a month ago, and receive zero engagement whatsoever. Is there anything I can reasonably do to look better?

u/Specialist-Option351 — 2 months ago