u/SpecialistSeesaw3621

How did you all find out your spouse was cheating on you? My husband has been acting weird this week and something seems off. He's at AIT rn and he's starting to text me less and less and doesn't say good night anymore and never asks me about me and how my day was or anything in my life. I've told him things like I'm not feeling too well and he won't ask any follow up questions and won't check in later and ask if I'm feeling better. Like yesterday he only sent me 3 texts and 2 of them were about the weather. He also turned off he location and when I asked him about it he made a stupid excuse about battery and icons. And then when I asked him if he's going to keep it off because of the battery he said no was just checking something but it's been almost a whole week and he still hasn't turned it on. He also stopped sending me meme and reels which I know sounds silly but its something he usually does on a daily basis. So now idk if I'm overthinking everything or something is up but I feel like he might be cheating. Is there any way I can find out? Like how did you all find out if your spouse cheated on you?

Hi my fiance is currently in basic training and we want to get married when would be the best time to get married so that I'm put on his orders to move in with him at his first station. He's in the army and is active duty if that matters. We can get married rn via proxy wedding but I heard he has to ask his command for permission is that true? Can they legally stop us from not getting married? Should we wait until his graduation to get married before he goes to AIT? We feel so stupid we should have gotten married before he left for basic but we didn't think it was going to be this difficult to get married. I just want to be able to live together again. We have lived together for the last 6 years and have been together for almost 10 years