u/Standard_Suit_4757

Can we cause emotional damage and trauma by starting our daughter in preschool

Our daughter is 3 and has been at home with mom up until now, and she is super attached to her. We want to start her at preschool and have tried a few days, and the first day went great she was excited to go, the 2nd day you could tell she was hesitant, and today she was sad and teary - and that just hurts so bad to see. I’m just wondering if this can cause any sort of issues now or down the road, if she really doesn’t want to go and feels sad about it? She’s also a kid that feels deeply, full of life, energetic, has her own mind, very smart, and stubborn as well. So I wonder if her unique personality makes things any different?

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u/Standard_Suit_4757 — 3 days ago

Can starting our daughter at preschool cause trauma or emotional issues?

Our daughter is 3 and has been at home with mom up until now, and she is super attached to her. We want to start her at preschool and have tried a few days, and the first day went great she was excited to go, the 2nd day you could tell she was hesitant, and today she was sad and teary - and that just hurts so bad to see. I’m just wondering if this can cause any sort of issues now or down the road, if she really doesn’t want to go and feels sad about it? She’s also a kid that feels deeply, full of life, energetic, has her own mind, very smart, and stubborn as well. So I wonder if her unique personality makes things any different?

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u/Standard_Suit_4757 — 3 days ago

Can we cause trauma to emotional problems to our daughter by starting her in preschool?

Our daughter is 3 and has been at home with mom up until now, and she is super attached to her. We want to start her at preschool and have tried a few days, and the first day went great she was excited to go, the 2nd day you could tell she was hesitant, and today she was sad and teary - and that just hurts so bad to see. I’m just wondering if this can cause any sort of issues now or down the road, if she really doesn’t want to go and feels sad about it? She’s also a kid that feels deeply, full of life, energetic, has her own mind, very smart, and stubborn as well. So I wonder if her unique personality makes things any different?

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u/Standard_Suit_4757 — 3 days ago

Looking at the lessee side here. Here’s some easy to use numbers and fact pattern:

- 5 year lease for $1,000/mo

- $1,000 tenant improvement allowance to lessee payable throughout the duration of the improvements and can be given in any amounts (500, 300, 200) and does not need to be paid back

- $1,000 tenant improvement allowance to lessee payable throughout the duration of the improvements but needs to be paid back to lessor

For the improvements the lessee is planning (and yes this exceeds the tenant improvement allowance amount)

$4,000 towards lessor owned assets

$2,000 towards lessee owned assets

For this whole fact pattern, how the heck do account for the improvement allowances and then the improvements themselves as well?

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u/Standard_Suit_4757 — 24 days ago