u/StoicWanders

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For context i am about to be a senior in high school, and due to the country i live in and my family i am in the closet despite appearing like a guy. If you were to know me you'd probably think im butch or something. I am out to one or two close friends, but we keep it low key.

I recently started dating a girl (not my girlfriend yet, we've gone on a few dates and are very close), this is my first romantic thing and i am very excited and very new to this. As of now i've only known her for about 3 months so i haven't had the chance to come out to her. For all she knows we are a two women couple. She likes both men and women, and i know she isn't transphobic, and she has shared some of her own gender expression related experiences, so i'm not too worried about her accepting me, but i'm worried she might stop being attracted to me?

I know i need to rip the bandaid off so this doesn't keep brewing inside of me, but i could really use some advice.