Am I being to sensitive? My boyfriend says hurtful things and I don't know if I'm being too sensitive

We've been together since we were teenagers. He used to be my sunshine, genuinely the best part of my life. But over time, especially with pressure from his work, he's become someone who prioritizes money and work over basically everything, including me.

Some things he's said to me:

\-"fk off, I don't need you"

\-"It's just periods, you can't even complete this work by this time"

\-When I fell and got hurt: "I didn't push you, you fell on your own"

\-"you cry every time"

\-"I'm your senior, I'm not gonna do this shitty work" (said to put me down)

\-"I can scold you, I'm way above you"

\-"You can't do any job if I haven't given you this one"

\-"You are dumb"

He also makes me do his work even when I'm hurt ( on my periods or wounded) , simply doesn't care about my well-being at all.

I cried for three days straight thinking about all of this. I haven't changed since we were teenagers, I still love him the same way, but he's completely different now. I know he's under pressure, and I get that pressure changes people, but does that give him the right to treat me like this?

Am I overreacting by being this hurt? Or is this actually as bad as it feels to me?

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u/Straight-Scratch7469 — 9 hours ago

Am I being to sensitive? My boyfriend says hurtful things and I don't know if I'm being too sensitive

We've been together since we were teenagers. He used to be my sunshine, genuinely the best part of my life. But over time, especially with pressure from his work, he's become someone who prioritizes money and work over basically everything, including me.

Some things he's said to me:

\-"fk off, I don't need you"

\-"It's just periods, you can't even complete this work by this time"

\-When I fell and got hurt: "I didn't push you, you fell on your own"

\-"you cry every time"

\-"I'm your senior, I'm not gonna do this shitty work" (said to put me down)

\-"I can scold you, I'm way above you"

\-"You can't do any job if I haven't given you this one"

\-"You are dumb"

He also makes me do his work even when I'm hurt ( on my periods or wounded) , simply doesn't care about my well-being at all.

I cried for three days straight thinking about all of this. I haven't changed since we were teenagers, I still love him the same way, but he's completely different now. I know he's under pressure, and I get that pressure changes people, but does that give him the right to treat me like this?

Am I overreacting by being this hurt? Or is this actually as bad as it feels to me?

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u/Straight-Scratch7469 — 9 hours ago

Please help me!!

Hey this screenshot is from my boyfriend profile , he has crazy gambling addiction 2 years back then .

And i really don't understand these things at all , he manipulates me in believing it's not real money , its not that much .

Please clarify how much he lost and ways to stop him ? I really want to help him , trying my best .

u/Straight-Scratch7469 — 12 days ago

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