u/Straight_Power3088

So I am tired of black forest, chocolate truffle,pineapple etc.. cakes on birthday's at my home, is there something new that you could recommend?

She was the friend that had nd no one else

SO, this friendship kinda lasted for 7 or 8 years that is until our 10th was over including the vacation after 10th. Soo 11th( 1st puc) and 12th(2nd puc)( we had to separate our ways)there was no connection between us I was the only person to text or call and talk to her she NEVER CALLED ME OR TEXTED ME until I did she would just enjoy the convocation if I called her. Trust me she's a very good person and one day I asked her directly that why should I be the only person to call or text first? Her reply was ' I can't do it bc I have a problem at her house' etc... ( this was during 11th) as time passed, I wouldn't call her all the time like only during times when I feel damnn it's been long time since we spoke and we kinda live in the same area like she 2 or 3 meters away from my home sometimes I would meet her at her place and talk to her but I found no difference in the bond BUT it was kinda awkward I guess idk. So there was this time (Shivarathri) and I texted her wanna meet? She said she was also wanting meet and wanted ask and I did first, we met went to the temple, I felt no changes, after a few months I felt very disappointed this time thinking that I am the only person whose putting efforts to keep the bond on track and safe but it seems like this bond was already dead gone during 11th. Few months back I texted her if would like come for walk so that I can express what's going and how I feel from my side to her and if she was something to say so that we can sort it out but she refused and told me that she usually goes with her mum so she can't come AND there we goo I felt really awfull this time. I tried explaining her twice about this as u read earlier in 11th and again in 12th very clearly, all her reasons for not calling or texting is she would think I might be busy or issues at her place.

Today's update it's been months calling her nd talking to her and I haven't heard anything from her side now that I stopped calling her. My questions are did she lose interest? Did she find new frnds ? But she says she haven't made any friends like she did w me but she does have frnds and doesn't hang out w them ig idk.

I kinda feel this is an one sided friendship ( btw we were besties veryyy close) what's ur opinion on this should I call her and explain or maybe sort it out OR let go of her this friendship bc sometimes my brain goes like call her talk to her so that you'll know her side and then you'll back.

SO, this friendship kinda lasted for 7 or 8 years that is until our 10th was over( including the vacation after 10th) soo 11th( 1st puc) and 12th(2nd puc)( we had to separate for ways)there was no connection between us I was the only person to text or call and talk to her she NEVER CALLED ME OR TEXTED ME until I did she would just enjoy the convocation if I called her. Trust me she's a very good person and one day I asked her directly that why should I be the only person to call or text first? Her reply was ' I can't do it bc I have a problem at her house' etc... ( this was during 11th) as time passed, I wouldn't call her all the time like only during times when I feel damnn it's been long tines since we spoke and we kinds live I the same area like she 2 or 3 meters away from my house sometimes I would meet her at her place and talk to her but I found no difference in the bond BUT it was kinda awkward I guess idk. So there was this time (Shivarathri) and I texted her wanna meet? She said she was also wanting meet and wanted ask and I did we met went to the temple, I felt no changes, after a few months I felt very disappointed this time thinking that I am the only person whose putting efforts to keep the bond on track and safe but it seems like this bond was already dead gone during 11th. Few months back I texted her if would like come for walk so that I can express what's going and how I feel from my side to her and if she was something to say so that we can sort it out but she refused and told me that she usually goes with her mum so she can't come AND there we goo I felt really awfull this time. I tried explaining her twice about this as u read earlier in 11th and again in 12th very clearly, all her reasons for not calling or texting is she would think I might be busy or issues at her place.

Today's update it's been months calling her nd talking to her and I haven't heard anything from her side now that I stopped calling her. My questions are did she lose interest? Did she find new frnds ? But she says she haven't made any friends like she did w me but she does have frnds and doesn't hang out w them ig idk.

I kinda feel this is an one sided friendship ( btw we were besties veryyy close) what's ur opinion on this should I call her and explain or maybe sort it out OR let go of her this friendship bc sometimes my brain goes like call her talk to her so that you'll know her side and then you'll back.

Help I am confused