u/Successful_Scale1341

i’m an incoming freshman at eighth and i’m not the greatest with my consistency but i do muay thai and hit the gym a few times each week. i’m afraid though that if i start living on my own and have to make my own schedule that im just going to become a chud. has anyone else had trouble with this or have advice for avoiding it?

I(18f) and my gf(18f) have been dating for two years. she is the grade above me and is already in university but stayed in our hometown at a school 10 minutes from her house, so she lives at home. i’m going to move over 2500 miles away for school in the fall at ucsd. i’ve had many friends in ldrs, but they ended up going to the same school/area as their partners or their partners moved closer to them, so i don’t really have anyone that understands my situation. i also don’t have a great support system at home because i have a fairly traditional family and while they don’t reject my being gay, they sort of just ignore it. i am very, very happy in my relationship, but are we just too young to invest in this? i’m a pretty agreeable person and i do not like conflict, so i rarely bring up issues, while my gf speaks her mind and knows what she needs from me, and while this has sparked arguments in the past, we always work through it because at the end of the day we just love each other.
now my biggest fear though, is that there’s going to be an argument while we’re apart, and i won’t be close enough to physically be with her and work it out, as that’s how we mediate best. i don’t want to break up with her by any means, but i don’t know that this relationship won’t stop me from becoming a bit of a shut in and missing out because i choose to stay in and talk with her instead of going out. i don’t at all want to sound like those people who don’t want to “miss out on the college experience” and use that as a reason to break up, but i genuinely do not know if this relationship will be the best thing for me.
sorry this was really long, i just needed to get it off of my chest.

i’m an incoming freshman and i’m just wondering bc im very confused about the college system. is it like harry potter

I am going to Tokyo and Sapporo. i’m 18 and female, i am moving to san diego for college in the fall. what are good dorm, stationary, and anything else that would be useful as a student? i would like to look for a good canvas bag/backpack. what are other good items to pick up and stores to look at?