I think I’m beefing with the dean (not really)
Okay, I need to know if I’m being dramatic because I feel like I have developed a personal beef with my dean… 😭
For context, I’m an incoming 1L and I’m genuinely excited to start. I also want to make it very clear that I don’t think I’m entitled to a scholarship or special treatment. I completely understand that scholarship money is limited and that admissions deans are busy!!!
BUT.
At admitted students day, I had a conversation with the dean about scholarships. She told me that I was more than likely going to receive a larger scholarship and specifically told me to reach back out after a certain date. She even gave me her personal phone number and told me to contact her.
So I did exactly that. The next day after the date she gave me, I called, left a very polite voicemail, and waited. Nothing.
About two weeks later, I called again. Still nothing.
Then I started noticing people in my incoming class talking about receiving emails & texts from the dean reminding them to complete their assessments. I had not completed mine either, yet I never received one. Again, I didn’t think too much of it because I figured there could be a perfectly reasonable explanation.
Fast-forward about two months, I decide to try one more time. I emailed her through the original email she had sent me and politely asked whether there happened to be any unused scholarship funds available. I basically said that if there were, I would be grateful to be considered.
A few hours later, she responded
“Our class is full and our scholarship bank is exhausted. See you in a few days!”
I have absolutely no issue with that answer. If the scholarship money is gone, it’s gone. I wasn’t expecting her to magically find money for me. What I do find frustrating is that I was specifically told to follow up, given her personal number, followed up multiple times, and never heard back.
Maybe I’m being sensitive, but it’s hard not to feel a little 🤨 about the whole thing.
Please tell me if I’m being unreasonable because I genuinely want to know!!! still grateful but it definitely left a bad taste in my mouth