u/SuicidalHemorrhoid

I keep on taking L's and L's when it comes to dating and finances. The word 'lesbian' was plastered multiple times across my profiles and whenever I mentioned any thing about a significant other, only feminine pronouns were used. I strictly set my preference to 'see only women' but the ratio is always 9 men to 1 measly woman and before I can find someone I can click with, my swipes already run out. I get excited at notifications, optimistically hoping that maybe this time, just maybe, it's a woman but no. Always men. Do these people not know how to read or do they genuinely believe that they can attempt to lure me into a conversation with them. Even apps exclusively designed for women who like other women have the same problem. How do men even find themselves in such spaces. To make it worse, the profiles of males are top and most liked profiles, on an app where you're supposed to connect with other women so reports never work..

I'm feeling quite disheartened with my result, it might have been only a day since I've really begun to prepare but my result did not even come close to exceeding my expectations. Honestly I'm quite unfamilar with the exam pattern and am unable to crack their line of reasoning, unaware as to why a certain answer weighed more than the other while reviewing in hindsight. My morale is lowered and I feel as if I'm miles away from my envisioned future. Please guide me with how I can work on these scores and hike them up to atleast a twenty-five.

This sub seems to be flooded with people who genuinely believe that men are a disadvantaged class or propagate personal erroneous interpretations of biology and psychology

I personally am an anti-feminist because of my biologically determinist approach towards equality which does not necessitate the conservative roles that more traditional schools of life champion but rather acknowledging natural differences between the sexes that exist as a result of dimorphism. I don't believe that men and women are wholly different and concede with primitive feminist notions of gaining an individual identity and not being exempt from equal opportunities (because nurture is as much of a deciding factor and a minute proportion of females might just be as adept in male-dominated fields) but it pretty much ends at that.

There are a lot of my ideas that do not coincide with or directly contradict the modern feminist advocates (eg: workplaces not having to accommodate leaves to menstruating women, wage differences, what classifies as 'domestic abuse' and rejecting the core understanding of patriarchy itself).

So are there people who are sort of hanging in between orthodoxy or men's rights sympathy and feminism?