u/Suitable-Bunch2435

I’m a 25 year old female, and we were high school sweethearts. Before he left the country for work, he and I had a fight. Ever since he left, he and I have no more communication. The last chat I sent him was the day before he left asking if he had already packed everything and to double check his luggage. And that time, we were already not talking for a week. My message was just delivered, he didn’t read it or replied to it. The only update at most I have on him is his location on find my app. The day before he left the country, I saw him hung out with a friend and it was past midnight. Of course I felt low, that he’d rather spend the little time he has with a friend than me his girlfriend. That rather talking out the fight we had he ignored it. The day he left I was hoping that maybe at least he’ll ask me to come with him to the airport. Only to see he’s already on his way to the airport through the find my app. I didn’t cry, I didn’t message him, I just…didn’t do anything anymore. It’s been a week since he left and he still hasn’t read my last message. So any advice? Should I just end it already? Or just ignore him altogether?

I’m in a relationship of six years, he started working overseas (last week) and before he left we had a little misunderstanding. Ever since wala kaming communication na dalawa. Yung pinaka update ko lang sa kanya is yung find my app. Then I can see that he’s hopping from place to place probably enjoying the new country while I’m left overthinking. Magchat ba ako sa kaniya o pabayaan ko nalang? (Ako yung last chat sa aming dalawa tapos naka delivered lang). I tried telling myself to not check on his location from time to time but I can’t help it.

I’m in a relationship of six years, he started working overseas and before he left we had a little misunderstanding. Ever since wala kaming communication na dalawa. Yung pinaka update ko lang sa kanya is yung find my app. Then I can see that he’s hopping from place to place probably enjoying the new country while I’m left overthinking. Magchat ba ako sa kaniya o pabayaan ko nalang? (Ako yung last chat sa aming dalawa tapos naka delivered lang)

V. Ghosting

I'm currently in a relationship of six years. We had a little argument/misunderstanding two weeks before ng alis niya sa bansa. Ako yung last chat sa aming dalawa tapos yung pinaka update ko nalang is yung location namin sa find my app. May ugali kasi sya na kapag nagaway kami ginoghost niya ako. Ako naman nasanay na at binibigyan nalang siya ng space until he's ready to talk kesa naman sa lalong magaway lang kami. Nakaalis na sya, no chat, no call, hindi na nagpunta sa bahay tapos nalaman ko nalang sa find my app na papuntang airport na pala. It's been two days since and we're still not communicating.

IV. A more than a decade’s waste(?)

He left for (not going to disclose the country). His flight was today, I hoped last minute that maybe he’ll try to reach out to me and ask if I should come with them to the airport. But when I checked his location he’s already on his way to the airport. No reply since last night, no chat, no anything. So yeah, great. Very good.

IV. A more than a decade’s waste(?)

He left for (not going to disclose the country). His flight was today, I hoped last minute that maybe he’ll try to reach out to me and ask if I should come with them to the airport. But when I checked his location he’s already on his way to the airport. No reply since last night, no chat, no anything. So yeah, great. Very good.

III. Do I? Or…?

I’m not going to disclose everything. Just that I have this realization that maybe this isn’t it, we’re not going to end up together. If we do, good luck to my future self. We’ve been together for so long, more than a decade. It’s not a perfect relationship, I mean who has one? Whenever we have this ‘cold war’ bit, he’s either out with his friends or just drink away. While I keep to my routine, never talks about it to anyone that we had a fight, all the while knowing where he is(find my app). I admit I’m emotionally unavailable this past months because I’m a reviewee and he git hired overseas. He’ll be leaving tomorrow at noon, and we never saw each other yet for more than a week now. I checked his location and he’s with his friends. Before we fought I planned of having a movie night here at my house, I’ll cook him something, we’ll talk, we’ll savor the time until we’re ldr again. But I guess life has another thing planned out.

II. Ghosting

It’s been three days since I confronted him about my concern with his cousin. He didn’t read my message yet, so I’m left overthinking things again. I went running as usual and tonight I saw him on his motorcycle, with a guitar on his back. He’s off having a good time with others when he hasn’t addressed my concern yet or even read my chat. I ran for 10km tonight to clear my head. I hope I could ignore him like he can when things are awkward between us. Instead I’m stuck overthinking and feeling down by myself. To keep myself distracted, I just rewatch Run-BTS, and put my phone on dnd so I won’t be tempted to check my phone from time to time🤡

I. Am I Crazy?

I have been in a relationship for more than 10 years. Going strong but of course there were times we almost broke up. He’s got this cousin of his, too clingy and affectionate with him. And I noticed that she doesn’t act that way with her other cousins. I feel left out when the three of us are together that I often end up playing on my phone to pass time. They sometimes get mistaken as a couple. Not sometimes but always actually. I’m a nonchalant person in public but gets affectionate with him if it’s just the two of us. He teases her a lot and sometimes I feel like I’m the one third wheeling. I also tried to be sweet and affectionate with him in public but when it’s the three of us but I can’t seem to get the chance because she’s already linking arms with him or leaning her head on his shoulder. Both their families are close too. And she’s my best friend. Is it wrong of me to feel bad about it? Or I’m batshit crazy?