u/Suspicious_Brief_235

Hi all,

I own 40% of my shared ownership house and after looking on my HA website I can’t find anything whether a partner moving in with me would be considered a lodger.

My a hole neighbour threatened to report me for having a lodger for 12 months but he is my partner so it’s not really the same as a lodger is it? I don’t make money out of his presence in my house.

Has anyone been in a similar situation? I am scared to call HA now in case they actually consider him to be a lodger.

My neighbours think front of my house is their own private waiting area to have a chat, discuss the weather, look into my windows to see inside the house. Does anyone have any ideas?

I am over asking and don’t want to make complaints as they would have to be declared when the house eventually goes on sale in future.

I live alone and I am absolutely fed up with this. I already had a run in with them last year but this is driving me nuts. I can’t leave the blinds up as they walk past my windows about 6 times a day, stopping, chatting, looking around, looking inside.

I would appreciate any ideas that are disruptive enough to put someone off from stopping at my front door. Danke Schon

I am looking for a financial or debt advisor in Derby or Derbyshire. I am looking online but everyone seems to be dedicated to wealth growth and mortgages rather than providing advice to get out of the gutter really.

Can someone recommend anyone? It’s not a CJP kind of situation, more like bad credit due to credit utilisation. The goal is to sell/buy a house but I don’t think a mortgage advisor will be able to provide assistance I need. I am not only after a mortgage offer, that’s more in the future.

Any recommendations will be appreciated. Thank you

I am absolutely incapable of getting anything right. Not a single freaking thing I get right. Can’t even attach the correct document to an email. Non stop something wrong. I will end up with disciplinary at least this time around. I literally can’t cope anymore with what sort of embarrassment I became over the years at this job. It’s never-ending stream of failures. No amounts of resets and carte blanche have helped so far. I am probably too dumb to do any job at this point.

I feel like I want to up and leave everything. It was supposed to be a stepping stone kind of a job but since I am a neverending freaking failure I am stuck in the dark corner of this stupid job and can’t get anything else out of it. I also think I was a diversity hire and they can’t wait to see the back of me because hey ho why have this foreign national doing stupid shit day in and out.

Hello,

I am in the UK and have been feeding local hedgehogs for about 4 years. Today morning 05:00 I was up and noticed rat going in and out of the hedgehog house.

I am absolutely petrified not because of the single rat I have seen but because I have hedgehog houses at the front and at the back of my house and very nasty neighbours. They already made me get rid of a hedgehog house from a communal grass verge due to dogs and cats sticking their heads in it to munch on hedgehog food.

My question is - will the wild hedgehogs be alright if I stop feeding them for a while and hopefully neighbourhood cats resolve the issue with rats? I am absolutely petrified as the neighbours are known for reporting each other and once they notice a rat or two nearby, they will report the hell out of me and blame me for causing it. I probably have caused it with years of feeding hedgehogs and some birds but I am worried if the hedgehogs will manage without me feeding them? There are at least 3 different ones coming over every night and I have no idea what to do. Can someone please advise?