u/Suspicious_Yak5988

Is it too late to experiment and find my sexuality?

I’m a cis man and recently turned 30, it seems like everybody has been able to experiment and find themselves in their late teens and early 20’s. I got with my high school sweetheart, cis woman, very early in life. We’re still together and I have no regrets about that, but I never had an opportunity to explore my sexuality.

My partner recently came out as asexual, and she’s encouraging me to try exploring my sexuality. This is the first opportunity in my life to find myself, but it’s very daunting to enter a community where it seems like I’m really far behind on knowing who I am and what I want. I also grew up in an incredibly homophobic family, and it took years of therapy to not be ashamed by my thoughts…

How would I even best begin this journey?

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u/Suspicious_Yak5988 — 3 days ago

I make $200k a year in data center construction, AMA!

I’m an internationally licensed industrial electrician. About 8 months ago, I left my home state and took a travel contract in the DC metro area building data centers for one of the big tech companies, I’m set to make a little over $200k this year.

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u/Suspicious_Yak5988 — 8 days ago

I want to try to make singing a hobby, do I have a good foundation to build upon?

I’m very self conscious about my singing, but I love to do it. I’ve never sang in public, only in my house or my car. My wife says I’m really good and she’s encouraging me to pursue my goals, but that might just be because she loves me and is biased :)

u/Suspicious_Yak5988 — 9 days ago