u/Sweaty-Intern67

hey guys just making sure i wont be cooked for this. my attendance for classes are below 80% but i have
AC for most of the absences (i think i didnt seek AC for one of them per subject) i have a medical condition and was really unwell for about a month earlier in the sem and ive fallen unwell again, ive had doctors notes for the AC which was all approved, im just nervous as my AC for this week hasn’t been approved yet when originally it came through pretty fast. surely when you have doctors notes the AC for attendance is always approved?

Hello. I have been going on dates with a man ( both 20) for a few months since about December. i’d say things are going really well, we get along really well and there’s always great convo etc, i know he deleted dating apps and i did too but he still has not asked me out. this is his first thing close to a relationship I’m pretty sure and he has mentioned he wanted to take things slow but I’m getting concerned we may remain in an endless dating zone without any titles. Everything is really sweet and nothing has happened physically further than just kissing so i don’t feel like he’s stringing me along or trying to use me just physically as he has never made advances to do so. he is really good relationship material but i don’t know why he hasn’t asked me to be his girlfriend yet. He has met my friends and we’ve made plans for me to meet his and my friends even commented he seems great and they don’t know why he hasn’t asked me out yet. Initially I thought he was holding back as I had just started College again and was crashing out while being fully employed so we were only seeing eachother once every few weeks but I’ve now sorted out my schedule and have mentioned to him many times just casually that I am in a super chill place in life rn. My birthday is coming up next month and I’m considering waiting to see how he acts for that day and if that should decide if I want to keep seeing him or not or do I try to initiate a “what are we”/“when are we making things official” convo but i also don’t want him to feel forced to do anything but we have been seeing each other for a while and from my perspective I think things have been really good. I am really scared about having a serious convo as in past situationsips they have actually never succeeded and have always led to a downfall.

Any advice on how to handle? / what to say