u/Sweet_Cookie_444

did anyone else just NOT get the housing they requested 😭 I requested a Double in North and I got a Single in Central which was my 2nd last ranked choice…. not even like it was my second highest ranked

I(18F) and my boyfriend (18M) have been together over a year. I’ve had a few jobs during this time, and at every job, he always tries to come in during my shifts to visit me at work. My current job is at a food place, not a fancy restaurant, but still a sit down dine in place. I mostly work the register so I don’t see every customer that comes in to eat but occasionally I check on customers at tables. Every single time i work, he comes in to “visit me.” I was fine with it at first, but now it’s just distracting and it’s a bit annoying. I don’t get to talk to him because i’m busy with customers, but he’s always watching me and it makes me uncomfortable. I’ve asked him to stop and he doesn’t , he just started coming in and then hiding in the back so I don’t see him, or ordering online so I don’t know he’s there at all. It’s honestly getting to feel controlling, and kind of creepy that he won’t stop even when I continuously ask him to. It’s also embarrassing because he creeps out my coworkers too, i’ve had girls i work with come tell me about a “creepy guy that’s been here 3 hours” and I have to tell them it’s my boyfriend. I don’t know what else to do, and i’m wondering if i’m just being dramatic about this. Just to clarify, I don’t need anyone shitting on me for staying with him or asking on reddit, if i knew what to do I wouldn’t be on here. Not saying I WONT leave him, but i’m asking A. Am I overreacting and B. Is there ANYTHING else I can do to get him to listen without leaving. This is the only relationship i’ve ever been in, i’m asking for help because I have no experience. Thank you for reading.

more information after reading comments is that I don’t work every day, only a few times a week but it’s the same days and times every week so he knows when i’m working without asking

The last time i tried to ask him to stop he just says sorry over and over and over again and then says he loves me, which he does anytime we argue