u/Tall-Most3727

I feel like everyone is out to get me. I had this feeling that this girl I went to school with got hired at the same job as me one day. And I found out it was true yesterday. So weird no????? Idk. Then I feel like everyone think my bfs cute and attractive, which he is he is conventionally attractive and I don’t mind. But I feel like everyone is out to get my bf too?? I’ve dealt with people getting at people I’ve dated before in the past and that’s highkey a trigger of mine. I don’t know. Idk I just feel like everyone’s out to get me and trying to ruin my relationship. I don’t know why. I’ve dealt with it in the past, and also I rlly wish my work life and my personal life were seperate but it happened to be that the girl I went to school with, my nursing bestie, and my boyfriend all got hired at the same job. And now that’s happened I don’t feel comfortable at all, it’s like I’m not at peace with my mind, I’m not at ease and I have these delusional overwhelming thoughts that these girls are gonna get in between my relationship. I know it’s giving insecure bc to add, they’re in relationships as well, but in my mind I think they’re not content or happy in them. I am 100% fulfilled and happy in mine. Am I tripping??? ANDI don’t wanna bring this up to my bf cuz it’s 100% ridiculous and he does not know these ppl. I’ve also just had bad experiences with friends alone bc of being betrayed, and I feel like it always came down to a man, them always thinking someone I dated was cute.

Pls don’t be passive aggressive in the comments, I’m just airing out my thoughts cuz I’m not in therapy rn🫠

my bf is a ‘22M’ feels some type of way everytime I, ‘22F,
‘, rant about other people. I was ranting about this girl I saw at the gym, her and her whole family were just very calculated towards me and I was just lowkey “hating” bc she got fat… she used to talk shit about me and I was telling my bf that it’s crazy that she got fat after basically bullying me in high school..her cousins and sister are basically just huge shit talkers and I really don’t fuck with them for many other reasons besides that. I was just ranting to my bf and he said “hating is bad for the soul”. To me that sounds like ur backing up the opposition. Like im literally just ranting and he doesent like it when i do that about people. I rarely do, im speaking out of emotion bc of the way they used to treat me and other ppl..and he says im doing too much. Am I valid for being angry at him about that?? He does it everytime. He always is looking for the good in other people meanwhile I already told him about how they used to make me feel…