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So as the title says my ex and his mother are claiming they sort out legal advice in regard to their belongings which I told them they had 9mths to collect and have abandoned them to my understanding as no attempts until now have been made. Me and him came to an agreement that I would give it back cleaned and all packed and ready even though I didn’t have to due to text messages where he has told me to just chuck everything out his and his mother’s belongings. The agreement which we both agreed on was if I didn’t have everything packed and cleaned by this weekend then he was to wait until I had done it no given time line for when it had to be done by before he booked a truck or anything. He has now messaged me yesterday saying he saw a lawyer and I have 14 days to do it and he’s booked a truck and I’ve said no we had a pre standing agreement that can not be changed unless we both agree to the change and yes his items were abandoned to my knowledge correct me if I am wrong as I’ve given him and his mother since beginning of January to collect their things but they have not made any attempts until now. He has also claimed he had booked a truck twice which he never told me about. What do I do? He broke most of our furniture and we’ve been using what was his until I saved up enough to get our own again. Something he is aware of as I’m still paying for the debts he left me as well something he said he would help pay but hasn’t.

Hey I did post earlier about my friends not working with the hack but now it is and just wondering how long after did everyone get full access to their results their estimate is completely not what they were told for their family tree and now they want to know if their dad is actually their dad.

TLDR my partner 25M won’t stop cheating and is spineless with his family. I gave him an ultimatum to come back Saturday or not at all my kids heard me give it and have been upset with me kicking out daddy and I don’t know if I can do it now.

So my partner 25m and I 26f broke up around December due to his mother being disrespectful to me and basically tried taking over my home. We got back together after he grew a pair and stood up to his mum for me and promised to change. We had a fight around then when I found out he spent almost all the money I gave him for Christmas presents (he didn’t get anyone anything) on online caming (almost 1k over 3 days) and when I told him to tell his mum why we were fighting he didn’t tell her and told her something else (found that out months later). Since then he has promised up and down he hasn’t kept doing it and is trying to be better. Which brings us to yesterday night. I found out he never stopped and what makes it worse is he lied to me constantly about it when I asked him and I had been helping him with his bills because he can’t get a job to save his life right now. But says he’s “trying” but has lost/left multiple jobs his job network got him. He is currently on a cruise with his mother and brother and his brothers partner as a birthday gift they got him/ family get away and has been away since last Saturday at their house (apparently he never knew his mum was picking him up early when I brought it up to him when I heard her say it to him just 2 days before he left) then went on the cruise Tuesday. He has been nothing but quiet since he went to their house and has been refusing to talk to me or our children if his mum is around (she doesn’t know we’re back together because his mum blames me for her knee getting permanent nerve damage after I kicked her out because she chose to stay in her car at the park down the road from our house when she could more then easily go to his brothers house where she eventually did go to and has been living there since then). He then told me today that when he gets back and the boat ports in our city (same one it departed from) he is apparently going back with his mother and brother to their city a couple hours away. I just snapped and told him he is spineless and pathetic because our children have been missing him and want him home. That since Saturday he has been icing us out and can’t seem to get off his mother’s tit for a few minutes for us to actually talk. I told him he has shown me and our children how much he actually respects us and he can either come back Saturday or not at all. That he can choose his family and us as his family or just his mother and brother. Since he’s been gone I’ve also been able to finally clean our house (he’s had issues with me cleaning it telling me off for cleaning saying he would do it and never does) and keep it clean something he says he can’t do because he doesn’t have time with the kids (I’m there to help as well) but surprise I can somehow manage the kids and make the house spotless and keep on top of chores. But my issue is my kids don’t want dad to leave and want him to come home. While I was telling him off on the phone my son managed to hear me give him the ultimatum which I tried very hard to avoid them hearing and asked to talk to dad and he was crying to him asking him to come home that he misses him. He told him he would be back soon but I honestly doubt he will come back Saturday and will go back to their city a couple hours away because he can’t tell them no. I don’t know I’m so over this relationship but our kids want us together and from him to come home and I don’t know if I can keep the ultimatum. I don’t want my kids to hate me over it but I just can’t do it anymore I don’t know what to do. I really need someone else’s point of view on this situation and if I should just let him back for the kids if he actually comes back Saturday or not. How do I go through it and how do I tell my kids.

Hello I currently live in Australia and need a computer to study with. I have a very limited budget of about 500 I need to have a computer that can run python, rstudio and other programming programs as I’m studying IT if anyone knows what would be best for my budget range that would be amazing thank you ❤️.