Salam aleykum
We‘re planning to visit Madina in September. Since I couldn’t find any resources when these slots are available, I wanted to ask you, if you guys knew?
Barakallah fik.
Repost since post got removed because of low karma.
Bismillahi Rahmani Raheem
About Me:
- Age: 27
- Origin/Ethnicity: Iraqi, born and raised in Switzerland 🇨🇭
- Languages: German (Fluent), English (Fluent), Iraqi Arabic (Conversational), French (Basic)
- Religious Practice: Alhamdulillah, I pray, fast during Ramadan, have been blessed to visit Mecca and Medina multiple times, and pay my Zakat regularly.
I’m not perfect. I still struggle with certain things, such as occasionally listening to music. However, I’ve been replacing it more and more with Qur’an, which I genuinely love listening to.
I’m not looking for someone who is perfect either. As long as you take your faith seriously and sincerely strive to improve, that’s what matters to me. We all have our struggles, and I believe we should support one another in becoming better Muslims.
Basic Information:
- Current Residence: Switzerland
- Willing to Relocate: Yes, depending on the circumstances. It’s something we can discuss together.
- Siblings: Two sisters
- Previously Married / Kids: No
- Occupation: Student
- Education: Currently pursuing a Bachelor’s degree
- Height / Weight: Approx. 180 cm / 73 kg
- Smoking / Vaping / Hookah: No
- Hobbies & Interests: Reading, going to the gym, gaming, spending time in nature, being with family, watching good movies & TV series
What I’m Looking For:
- Age: Ideally 23–27 (although maturity is much more important)
- Origin/Ethnicity: No preference
- Languages: Arabic or German would be nice, but English is absolutely fine as well.
- Religious Practice
I’m looking for someone who genuinely takes Islam seriously and sincerely tries to fulfil the basics, such as praying and fasting.
None of us are perfect, and I’m certainly not expecting perfection. What matters most to me is sincerity, good intentions, and the desire to grow closer to Allah.
Whether you wear hijab is neither a requirement nor a preference for me. I believe that’s a personal decision between you and Allah, and regardless of your choice, I would always encourage and support you in your journey.
- Education & Career
As long as you have a career or profession that you genuinely enjoy, that’s what matters to me. I wouldn’t want you to stay in a job that makes you unhappy or negatively affects your mental well-being.
I also don’t believe household responsibilities belong solely to the wife. I actually enjoy helping around the house myself.
Maybe that’s what happens when you grow up with two older sisters. 😄
- Deal Breakers
Not taking Islam seriously or making no effort to pray, fast, and improve.
Smoking, vaping, or using hookah.
Constant shouting, disrespectful communication, or unnecessary aggression.
- Future Plans
I’d love for us to spend the first 1–2 years building a strong foundation, getting to know each other deeply, travelling together, and learning how to navigate life as a married couple before starting a family (if by then you’re comfortable and want one, of course).
Since I’m currently studying, my ideal timeline would be to get to know someone over the next few years and, Insha’Allah, get married and move in together in around 2–3 years.
Of course, life doesn’t always go exactly as planned, so I’m open-minded and believe these things are best discussed together.
Thank you so much for taking the time to read all of this. I genuinely appreciate it, and I wish you all the best.
May Allah grant us all righteous spouses and bless us with what’s best for our dunya and akhirah.
Ameen. 🤲
Bismillahi Rahmani Raheem
About Me
- Age: 26
- Origin/Ethnicity: Iraqi, born and raised in Switzerland.
- Languages: German (Fluent), English (Fluent), Iraqi Arabic (Conversational), French (Basic)
Religious Practice
- I pray, fast during Ramadan, went to Mecca and Medina multiple times, and pay Zakat regularly.
I'm not perfect - I still struggle with certain things, such as occasionally listening to music. However, I've been replacing it more and more with Qur'an, which I genuinely love listening to.
I'm not looking for someone who is perfect either. As long as you take your faith seriously and sincerely strive to improve, that's what matters to me. We all have our struggles, and I believe we should support one another in becoming better Muslims.
Basic Information
- Current Residence: Switzerland
- Willing to Relocate: Yes, depending on the circumstances. It's something we can discuss together.
- Siblings: Two sisters (I'm the youngest.)
- Previously Married / Kids: No
- Occupation: Student
- Education: Currently pursuing a Bachelor's degree
- Height / Weight: Approx. 180 cm / 73 kg
- Smoking / Vaping / Hookah: No
- Things I Enjoy: Reading, gym, Gaming, being in the nature, spending time with family, watching good movies and TV series
What I'm Looking For
- Age: Ideally 23–27, although maturity is much more important.
- Origin/Ethnicity: No preference.
- Languages: Arabic or German would be nice, but English is absolutely fine as well.
- Religious Practice: I'm looking for someone who genuinely takes Islam seriously and sincerely tries to fulfil the basics, such as praying and fasting.
None of us are perfect, and I'm certainly not expecting perfection. What matters most to me is sincerity, good intentions, and the desire to grow closer to Allah.
Whether you wear hijab is neither a requirement nor a preference for me. I believe that's a personal decision between you and Allah, and regardless of your choice, I would always encourage and support you in your journey.
Education & Career
- As long as you have a career or profession that you genuinely enjoy, that's what matters to me. I wouldn't want you to stay in a job that makes you unhappy or negatively affects your mental well-being.
I also don't believe household responsibilities belong solely to the wife - I actually enjoy helping around the house myself.
Maybe that's what happens when you grow up with two older sisters. 😄
Deal Breakers:
- Not taking Islam seriously or making no effort to pray, fast, and improve.
- Smoking, vaping, or using hookah.
- Constant shouting, disrespectful communication, or unnecessary aggression.
Future Plan:
- I'd love for us to spend the first 1–2 years building a strong foundation, getting to know each other deeply, travelling together, and learning how to navigate life as a married couple before starting a family. (if by then you’re getting comfortable to want one, ofc)
Since I'm currently studying, my ideal timeline would be to get to know someone over the next few years and, Insha'Allah, get married and move in together in around 2–3 years.
Of course, life doesn't always go exactly as planned, so I'm open-minded and believe these things are best discussed together.
Thank you so much for taking the time to
read all of this. I genuinely appreciate it, and I wish you all the best.
May Allah grant us all righteous spouses and bless us with what's best for our dunya and akhirah. Ameen. 🤲
This is going to sound shitty but I don’t care.
If I never see another small dick in my life, it would be too soon. I’m from the south and have most of my sexual experience there. Frankly, I have a high expectation on size and girth. I don’t know why but most of my sexual partners in the south were big. I don’t know the phenomenon.
I moved to the Midwest a little while ago and this is hell on earth. It was so much easier to explore sexually down south. Even if there was no emotional connection or relationship, I knew I would get some feeling out of having sex with men.
I’m now three different sexual partners in, and have never been more sexually dissatisfied in my life. They all range from 3-4.5 inches erect and have no girth. Hindsight, it feels like a disservice to myself to have slept with them. Like they owe me money for the favor. I’ve always received compliments on tightness and wetness. I feel like I’m getting riled up for absolutely nothing. It’s starting to affect the level of respect I have for men. Like if your dick is little, you cannot convince me that the sky is blue at this point. I simply wouldn’t care.
And yeah, 1/3 of them was a “nice guy” but the other ones still have the audacity to move throughout life the way they do knowing they cannot sexually please women. They would need to be extra funny or extra rich to keep a woman and I mean that in the most sincere way. To add insult to injury, I was sitting scrolling on Reddit and sexual websites, trying to find accommodating positions and different tactics they could use to no avail. They are lazy and useless, and are only focused on their own sexual pleasure.
I simply can’t continue tolerating this. Before I even give a man my number, I want to know how big it is at this point. I can’t even pretend like personality and kindness and all of that matters to me right now. It doesn’t. How big is it? That’s all. I know what it’s like to be pleased by penetrative sex and will not continue on this path that doesn’t center my pleasure.
Ok end rant. Thanks for reading.