u/Technical_Reach_3035

This is crazy to me but here it goes,

Head Boss - HB

Head Boss Recruiter - Madame

So, Madame met me and mentioned that HB has been asking about me in a companionship/girlfriend type of way. HB is married or should be, and should have children my age or older.

Madame says just do it and get money and stuff put of it. He'll take care of you. Which I get that but, I don't know about the narrative of being someone's sugar baby.

My morality says you shouldn't do this, but HB is connected and while the money is good, the connection is even better. I run a side business that could benefit greatly from these connections.

It's not a guarantee that he'll actually get me connected though.

So, at what cost am I willing to have a possible connection to big contracts and stuff? Is it worth a shot? How easily can I get out?

Plus it doesn't really line up with my religion either.

How do I get out of it if I decide not to go ahead? My job is kinda at stake here too

Edit: It's not AI lol, I only considered because of the potential connections tbh and I've left Madame know that I can't do so and I'm only interested in a genuine professional relationship. Should I put anything more in place?

My dad is the type of person that believes as long as its not the decision, he would have taken, your decision is stupid. Like the paradox of everyone driving slower than you is too slow and everyone faster is too fast and you're the only right one.

He also doesn't have anyone who can talk to him that he'd actually listen to because he believes he's wiser or smarter than the rest of us (friends and family)

So, a few days ago he blew up on me about a bu ch of things, he talked about how I never communicate, do chores and that I'm lazy and dirty and basically a poser outside actually like I'm good and neat when I'm not. Made a statement about taking pictures and smiling like an idiot???

He also talked about how all I do is go to the gym (4 times a week after work) and don't care about the home.

He's also upset that I'm slowly changing churches from the one I grew up in and he's a pastor at to a new one, but tbh, I haven't been growing spiritually there in over a year and this new one has been really helpful.

He's not try to make it easy and he asked where I was on a Sunday morning which I did go to church (both churches at that) and then asked why I didn't leave gor church when everyone else did, I mentioned i was having a wardrobe malfunction and he asked why I didn't mention it, that did I expect any one to just be waiting for me (He wouldn't have waited even if I did. He believes and has said that he should never be waiting for me, that it's disrespectful), I responded that I didn't except anyone to wait for me because I truly didn't and I knew he wouldn't ever wait.

He said "Oh that's what going to be happening from now on"

The statement really shocked me because he wasn't waiting originally so, what was the difference now 🤷🏾

So, I recognise things I need to change and try to do better so that's not really the issue.

The thing is he's been giving the silent treatment since then lol. He's jovial with everyone and relates as normal, but acts like my presence angers him, if I greet, he'll respond but that's it.

I'm not really interested in getting him to speak because that's he's choice but I find it so crazy that someone who keeps yelling at me for not communicating, refuses to communicate.

I usually hitch a ride with him to work, but since he's blow up, he has been leaving me behind both at work and at home, I'd call to "communicate" and he won't pick up.

I can make my own plans but I know he'll still come at me for doing things on my own and not including people into the communication loop. But he's not communicating so I can't really work with his plans.

It's slightly ironic and you might say that's the same thing he was dealing with from my poor communication but I don't communicate as well because like I said in the beginning, if you're making a decision, he wouldn't, you're automatically foolish and it gets tiring to communicate with someone constantly belittling your choices.

So, how do you suggest I go on moving forward?

I've got a few chicken pieces and I want to try put new recipes or twists on basic recipes, so please give me your best recipes. I'll update on each recipe I try out.