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Help me with wedding shopping

Hi, getting married in January next year. Need some help with where to do my shopping for bride and groom. Options are Delhi and Kanpur. Delhi has a lot of variety but hope it doesn’t become too expensive (tell me good trusted shops if you know any). Can also split the shopping between the two cities

I don’t know anything. I have not married before 🤓. Please help me out.

Budget for reference for a lehenga - around 40k.

Thanks in advance

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u/Temporary_Ad5525 — 1 day ago
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Help me with wedding shopping

Hi, getting married in January next year. Need some help with where to do my shopping for bride and groom. Options are Delhi and Kanpur. Delhi has a lot of variety but hope it doesn’t become too expensive (tell me good trusted shops if you know any). Can also split the shopping between the two cities

I don’t know anything. I have not married before 🤓. Please help me out.

Budget for reference for a lehenga - around 40k.

Thanks in advance

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u/Temporary_Ad5525 — 1 day ago

Meditation has increased attachment to thought?

Hi fellow vessels of consciousness,

27M here, need your help

So I started meditation properly one year back. And it has been profoundly helpful. It has gotten me out of a very deep hole in my life. I was basically done with existence, tired and exhausted, wishing for the misery to end. But now, things are so different. I feel happy for once, never been like this in a long, long time. I feel alive (writing this as Coming back to life by Pink Floyd plays in background:)).
Of course there are bad days still, but I get over them quicker now. It doesn’t stick as much now

I have always been an extreme over-thinker. Since early childhood, I have spent most of my time in my head. With my current state in the meditation practice, I haven’t yet quite got a hold of thoughts, in fact the opposite has happened. I have grown more attached to them at times (I am talking about life in general, not during meditation). This I feel is primarily because meditation has significantly improved the quality of experience of existence. Everything is a little bit richer, more profound. That profoundness has carried over into my thought-world, adding depth and intensity to it. Hence I sometimes find myself lost in thought quite often. It’s so moving at times I tear up (not a big deal I cry very easy)

Obviously this makes being present in the moment very difficult at times. Can’t get enough work done at times. Sometimes falling asleep is difficult (always has been tbh)

Help me and guide me if you know any solution to this.

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u/Temporary_Ad5525 — 2 months ago