u/TheSavageRulk

Hello!

I have a question I could not find if it was asked and/or answered previously(might be using wrong keywords), so I am just going to ask the subreddit.

I am looking for the best dependable way to receive deliveries from UPS. Now I don't mean for expedited deliveries, I mean for the ones you get for purchases. Standard deliveries. My shipping route in my area is questionable at best for ETAs. It is almost never on time, I can almost depend on it being delayed when I have to sign for it(something I can never presign on the website) & early when I don't. Even worse when it is something I expect. Sometimes when I can see where the vehicle with my package is on the day of delivery, I almost want to chase it down and ask for it(something I am sure if frowned upon if not illegal).

So I just want to ask, what is the best dependable way to arrange deliveries with UPS:

Have it delivered to an Access Point/Store?

Arrange it to be delivered on certain days/times?

Or, just trust the system & have it delivered normally?

Any feedback is appreciated. Thanks

To say I am 99% done interacting with my favorite nerdoms is an understatement. As a middle-aged/GenX Blerd, I do not have many family and friends into nerd culture to the level I am and I think I will been seen as casual compared to some deep in it.

I love what I love, but mostly find my interactions with common interests are online. Over the past few years, I tried to us the internet to find my "pack" in my Fandom, to only be judged at every turn.

I feel I can't even post anywhere to have a discussion and/or feedback to be judged or outright rejected for my posts. I usually end up deleting them.

I am at the point of giving up trying to enjoy my hobbies with others. Do any of you deal with this? How have you addressed it & how did you come to find people you enjoy talking with? Any feedback is appreciated. Thank you.