u/Then_Painter_6922 — reddlx

Questions from wedding guests driving me crazy

Just need to rant. Everything is on our website with an FAQ section. It's like every guest wants us to help them with something. All adults over the age of 25 btw. Some highlights:

One guest is complaining how far the drive is (2 hours), sorry my bad, let me change the venue just for you.
Edit: This particular guest spent a whole dinner in person complaining about how inconvenient it is.

Another guest doesn't have a car and is asking me to ask ALL the other guests if someone can carpool. Not all my guests have cars including some who are flying in, no one else is asking me to find them a ride and she follows up daily if I found her a ride! Girl, go rent a car or ask around yourself.
Edit: I’m not asking 150 guests if anyone is available to carpool.

Another one is asking me what 'formal dress code' means. Sir, it's in the FAQ section and you can look it up. No, don't send us photos of your suits, we have a million things to manage I don't want to help you pick your outfit.
Edit: This is not a tech issue, guest is 26 y.o. Again inspo is in our FAQ

I love my guests but when I have a million things on my mind I cannot answer every trivial question when it’s on the website or can be searched up.

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u/Then_Painter_6922 — 7 hours ago

▲ 174 r/kbeauty

Bridal makeup SOS

Edit: Thank you for the helpful comments! I agree with the foundation being too light, I brough it up and she said she'll use the correct shade the day of. And the look I showed her was this: https://ca.pinterest.com/pin/755619643769876851/

Did a makeup trial today but hate it :( Wedding is in 3 months, I can’t figure out why I don’t like the makeup. I spent so long finding an Asian MUA that is familiar with my East Asian features.

Something about the eyes is too heavy? Or all of it was too heavy?

I know it’ll photograph differently but I was so thrown off. Blush isn’t where I’d normally place it, eyeliner as well. Normally I use pink blush but she went for a peachy tone.

Is there a different look I should go for? Maybe do my own makeup? If you have an inspo pic that might suit my feature please drop it below!

u/Then_Painter_6922 — 13 days ago

▲ 8 r/AsianParentStories

I don't want to invite my parents to my wedding but I have no choice

I say I have no choice because I want my grandma to come and she and I both live with my narc parents. She's too old to come by herself. I really don't want to invite my parents but I'll have to tough it out. Is it a bad idea that when I invite them I let them know they weren't invited at first?

Another issue is that I don't want my dad to walk me down as he is very sexist and would thrive at the idea of 'handing me off'. I would prefer my grandma or brother to walk me down. Anyone not want to invite their parents but still did?

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u/Then_Painter_6922 — 19 days ago

▲ 1 r/weddingplanning

No bridal suite, where do I change into my dress?

I will be at an Airbnb 15 minutes from the venue with my bridal party (hair/makeup will happen there), do I change into my dress at the Airbnb or bring it to the venue and change there? There's no changeroom at the venue but no guests will be there yet as we are going early to do 'first look' photos.

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u/Then_Painter_6922 — 22 days ago