u/Think_Storm_8909

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AITAH for being cold towards my colleague?

I am in my 20s and he is late 30s. At first he was just normal office friendly and we have mutual work friends so we used to hang out with the group in the office cafeteria.

Suddenly he started oversharing about his personal life to everyone and started passing judgements about people outside our group and then be like "I just said what I saw, I don't sugarcoat thing". We all started feeling slightly uncomfortable.

Then one day suddenly I was at the cafeteria, took my break a little late so the usual group was not there. He came and took a sit, started chit chatting. Then he started judging the looks and outfit of other girls there, which weirded me out so bad. I told him what he was doing was not nice, he just said "I never lie, I am just saying what I am seeing" Like wtf. I immediately left and went back to work.

After that I have been avoiding him, told other close people (mostly women) what he said and they too started avoiding him. I am pretty sure he is aware that we are avoiding him but he keeps trying to join us, and the roll his eyes whenever he doesn't get the attention.

Yesterday he tried changing his seat to sit closer to me and few other women. He asked our supervisor but I shook my head behind him and the supervisor immediately told him no and to continue working.

Few of the guys found out, and even though they haven't said anything to me, they are acting like I am making it all a big deal. Also yesterday we were supposed to hang out for a bite after work but as soon as he joined I left even though the guy insisted I stay.

Reporting him is not an option. Proper HR don't even exist in my office.

I want to know if I am the AH for treating him this way....also I will continue avoiding him, that's not going to change

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u/Think_Storm_8909 — 3 days ago

Actors who should appear in the Bridgerton universe...

Charlie Cox

Dev Patel

Michael Sheen

Taz Skyler

Morgan Freeman

Gemma Chen

Amita Suman

Sadie Sink

Lisa Kudrow

Hamza Ali Mazari

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u/Think_Storm_8909 — 3 days ago

Ummm other universe...

Anthony: Once Upon a Time

Benedict: How I Met Your Mother

Colin: Pirates of the Carribean

Daphne: Wheel of Time

Eloise: Narnia

Francesca: Outlander

Gregory: The Hobbit

Hyacinth: Brooklyn 99

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u/Think_Storm_8909 — 3 days ago

The better couples

Anthony x Philipa

Benedict x Queen Charlotte

Colin x Elizabeth Swan

Daphne x Charlie Weasley

Eloise x Doctor Who

Francesca x Santana Lopez

Gregory x Max Mayfield

Hyacinth x Garrett Graham

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u/Think_Storm_8909 — 3 days ago

Francesca should end up with reformed Cressida

You people are just too scared to accept it

I can see tge future...and I can say with 100% confidence that people who down vote this will get a very disappointing s5 and Eloise will take up the best parts

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u/Think_Storm_8909 — 3 days ago

Uncle Ewan

Does anyone knows someone like uncle Ewan who hates how the money is coming but never give it up....but still complains and look like a guy with morals and values?

I kinda know a few...

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u/Think_Storm_8909 — 9 days ago

Succession

Anthony: Kendall

Benedict: Connor... I know Connor is the eldest but Benedict is so him, besides it is Kendall who is the "eldest boi"

Eloise: Shiv

Colin: Roman...but the more polite version

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u/Think_Storm_8909 — 12 days ago

Queen Charlotte's next matchmaking

It should be Violet.

Imagine everyone sucking up to the queen to get a good match for their daughter but the Queen realized Violet needs a good suitable partner.

Imagine Violet's surprise and confusion. She can't say no to the queen.

A long line of suitors, all trying to win her favour and court her.

5 min scene of Anthony coming out of his kidnapper's basement to give a stunned reaction and his brain malfunctioning.

The Queens one last successful marriage season

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u/Think_Storm_8909 — 12 days ago

Anthony and Kate: King of Greed

Benedict and Sophie: Twisted Games (roles reversed?)

Colin and Penelope: King of Envy

Daphne and Simon: Twisted Hate (without that scene, iykyk)

Eloise and Philip: King of Wrath

Francesca and Michael/a: Twisted Lies

Gregory and Lucy: King of Pride

Hyacinth and Gareth: King of Gluttony/Sloth

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u/Think_Storm_8909 — 19 days ago

Anthony: Tax fraud...like years and years of fraud and then escapes jail time

Kate: Hit-woman...while still being a loving wife and a mother. Her family doesn't know

Benedict: Thief...there no vault in the world he can't break in. World's half of the famous paintings are duplicates. You will find the real ones in his bedroom

Sophie: Thief/con-woman. No one knows her real name. She stole Benedict's stolen paintings, he is yet to realize that because the duplicates are so realistics.

Colin: Drug dealer...may look like a low level dealer but don't let it fool you. You double cross him and within a day you will be ruined

Penelope: Illegal cultivator...owns and runs Marijuana farms. It has become a family business

Daphne: The black widow...married four times, became widow for times, inherited late husbands' wealths

Simon: Mercenary...if he is hired then it's game over

Eloise: Dirty lawyer...every rich and criminal hire her. She can get you out even if you were caught with blood and the murder weapon

Philip: Murderer...uses his special home made poisons. Works at the forensic lab..

Francesca: Dominatrix...runs a underground BDSM dungeon

Michael: Psychopath...loves pain..both giving and receiving

Michaela: Arms dealer...runs an entire empire. There are rumors that she also has a few deadly bio weapons

Gregory: The cleaner...he is called after you kill someone. No one ever finds out where he dumps the body. He is on very high demand

Lucy: Rookie hit-woman...makes a few messy mistakes but always hit her targets

Hyacinth: Illegal treasure hunter...loves shiny things. Sometimes the treasures are in a scary jungle cave, sometimes in a prime minister's locker

Gareth: Dirty detective...actually running a syndicate of criminals. No one suspects him and no one knows about his other life. Has been trying to recruit a certain treasure hunter she always slips through his fingers

Imagine family dinner and Anthony bragging about how he is lowkey a criminal and easily escaping the law, not knowing about the others

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u/Think_Storm_8909 — 22 days ago

Lets do this again...

Anthony: Owns a law firm. Harvey Spector is jealous of him

Kate: Runs a big tea business. Owns tea plantation and factories all over the country. Sued one of Anthony's clients.

Benedict: Famous painter. Anonymously pay for the tution fees of underprivileged art students

Sophie: Youngest professor at an university. Teachers literature. Walked in on Benedict posing nude for an art class while also teaching

Colin: Owner of a very new and successful Luxury hotel and resort chain all over the world

Penelope: Very famous romance novel writer under the name Whistledown. Everyone thinks she is jobless but can't figure out how she can afford her luxurious house and lifestyle

Daphne: Fashion designer. Everyone wants to wear her but very few can afford

Simon: Owns a real estate business. Helped Daphne find a venue last minute for a fashion show as a favor to Anthony

Eloise: Women activist and a lawyer. Anthony wants her to join his firm but she turned him down

Philip: Botanist. Wrote a very public formal complaint to Eloise for hosting a protest at the botanical park and endangering rare plants. Eloise wrote back to him 20 page long details about why the protest was necessary

Francesca: World class pianist. Very classy, very chic.

Michael: Gave up his family's company to find his own way. Owns a very famous club. His cousin dragged him to a classical music show once and since then he has become a big fan of the pianist.

Michaela: Took over her family's company. Recently crushed her car right outside a musical gala and almost hit a pianist. Brought her a huge piano as an apology

Gregory: Owns a fertility clinic....

Lucy: Therapist, specializes in couple's therapy. Divorced. Recently visited a fertility clinic, realized she doesn't need a man to be a mother

Hyacinth: Detective. Has a perfect record. Loves a good challenge and a mystery

Gareth: A conman. Would put Niel Caffery to shame.

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u/Think_Storm_8909 — 23 days ago