u/Think_Storm_8909
AITAH for being cold towards my colleague?
I am in my 20s and he is late 30s. At first he was just normal office friendly and we have mutual work friends so we used to hang out with the group in the office cafeteria.
Suddenly he started oversharing about his personal life to everyone and started passing judgements about people outside our group and then be like "I just said what I saw, I don't sugarcoat thing". We all started feeling slightly uncomfortable.
Then one day suddenly I was at the cafeteria, took my break a little late so the usual group was not there. He came and took a sit, started chit chatting. Then he started judging the looks and outfit of other girls there, which weirded me out so bad. I told him what he was doing was not nice, he just said "I never lie, I am just saying what I am seeing" Like wtf. I immediately left and went back to work.
After that I have been avoiding him, told other close people (mostly women) what he said and they too started avoiding him. I am pretty sure he is aware that we are avoiding him but he keeps trying to join us, and the roll his eyes whenever he doesn't get the attention.
Yesterday he tried changing his seat to sit closer to me and few other women. He asked our supervisor but I shook my head behind him and the supervisor immediately told him no and to continue working.
Few of the guys found out, and even though they haven't said anything to me, they are acting like I am making it all a big deal. Also yesterday we were supposed to hang out for a bite after work but as soon as he joined I left even though the guy insisted I stay.
Reporting him is not an option. Proper HR don't even exist in my office.
I want to know if I am the AH for treating him this way....also I will continue avoiding him, that's not going to change
Actors who should appear in the Bridgerton universe...
Charlie Cox
Dev Patel
Michael Sheen
Taz Skyler
Morgan Freeman
Gemma Chen
Amita Suman
Sadie Sink
Lisa Kudrow
Hamza Ali Mazari
Ummm other universe...
Anthony: Once Upon a Time
Benedict: How I Met Your Mother
Colin: Pirates of the Carribean
Daphne: Wheel of Time
Eloise: Narnia
Francesca: Outlander
Gregory: The Hobbit
Hyacinth: Brooklyn 99
The better couples
Anthony x Philipa
Benedict x Queen Charlotte
Colin x Elizabeth Swan
Daphne x Charlie Weasley
Eloise x Doctor Who
Francesca x Santana Lopez
Gregory x Max Mayfield
Hyacinth x Garrett Graham
Francesca should end up with reformed Cressida
You people are just too scared to accept it
I can see tge future...and I can say with 100% confidence that people who down vote this will get a very disappointing s5 and Eloise will take up the best parts
Only jealous people would say this is not Benedict and Sophie
Uncle Ewan
Does anyone knows someone like uncle Ewan who hates how the money is coming but never give it up....but still complains and look like a guy with morals and values?
I kinda know a few...
Succession
Anthony: Kendall
Benedict: Connor... I know Connor is the eldest but Benedict is so him, besides it is Kendall who is the "eldest boi"
Eloise: Shiv
Colin: Roman...but the more polite version
I found the perfect Gregory for the Bridgertons and Lucy
reddit.comI found the perfect Violet for the Bridgerton kids, and Edmund
reddit.comQueen Charlotte's next matchmaking
It should be Violet.
Imagine everyone sucking up to the queen to get a good match for their daughter but the Queen realized Violet needs a good suitable partner.
Imagine Violet's surprise and confusion. She can't say no to the queen.
A long line of suitors, all trying to win her favour and court her.
5 min scene of Anthony coming out of his kidnapper's basement to give a stunned reaction and his brain malfunctioning.
The Queens one last successful marriage season
Anthony and Kate: King of Greed
Benedict and Sophie: Twisted Games (roles reversed?)
Colin and Penelope: King of Envy
Daphne and Simon: Twisted Hate (without that scene, iykyk)
Eloise and Philip: King of Wrath
Francesca and Michael/a: Twisted Lies
Gregory and Lucy: King of Pride
Hyacinth and Gareth: King of Gluttony/Sloth
Anthony: Tax fraud...like years and years of fraud and then escapes jail time
Kate: Hit-woman...while still being a loving wife and a mother. Her family doesn't know
Benedict: Thief...there no vault in the world he can't break in. World's half of the famous paintings are duplicates. You will find the real ones in his bedroom
Sophie: Thief/con-woman. No one knows her real name. She stole Benedict's stolen paintings, he is yet to realize that because the duplicates are so realistics.
Colin: Drug dealer...may look like a low level dealer but don't let it fool you. You double cross him and within a day you will be ruined
Penelope: Illegal cultivator...owns and runs Marijuana farms. It has become a family business
Daphne: The black widow...married four times, became widow for times, inherited late husbands' wealths
Simon: Mercenary...if he is hired then it's game over
Eloise: Dirty lawyer...every rich and criminal hire her. She can get you out even if you were caught with blood and the murder weapon
Philip: Murderer...uses his special home made poisons. Works at the forensic lab..
Francesca: Dominatrix...runs a underground BDSM dungeon
Michael: Psychopath...loves pain..both giving and receiving
Michaela: Arms dealer...runs an entire empire. There are rumors that she also has a few deadly bio weapons
Gregory: The cleaner...he is called after you kill someone. No one ever finds out where he dumps the body. He is on very high demand
Lucy: Rookie hit-woman...makes a few messy mistakes but always hit her targets
Hyacinth: Illegal treasure hunter...loves shiny things. Sometimes the treasures are in a scary jungle cave, sometimes in a prime minister's locker
Gareth: Dirty detective...actually running a syndicate of criminals. No one suspects him and no one knows about his other life. Has been trying to recruit a certain treasure hunter she always slips through his fingers
Imagine family dinner and Anthony bragging about how he is lowkey a criminal and easily escaping the law, not knowing about the others
I am tired of interesting complex characters getting messy riverdale level storylines. Can this be the last season? Please....
Lets do this again...
Anthony: Owns a law firm. Harvey Spector is jealous of him
Kate: Runs a big tea business. Owns tea plantation and factories all over the country. Sued one of Anthony's clients.
Benedict: Famous painter. Anonymously pay for the tution fees of underprivileged art students
Sophie: Youngest professor at an university. Teachers literature. Walked in on Benedict posing nude for an art class while also teaching
Colin: Owner of a very new and successful Luxury hotel and resort chain all over the world
Penelope: Very famous romance novel writer under the name Whistledown. Everyone thinks she is jobless but can't figure out how she can afford her luxurious house and lifestyle
Daphne: Fashion designer. Everyone wants to wear her but very few can afford
Simon: Owns a real estate business. Helped Daphne find a venue last minute for a fashion show as a favor to Anthony
Eloise: Women activist and a lawyer. Anthony wants her to join his firm but she turned him down
Philip: Botanist. Wrote a very public formal complaint to Eloise for hosting a protest at the botanical park and endangering rare plants. Eloise wrote back to him 20 page long details about why the protest was necessary
Francesca: World class pianist. Very classy, very chic.
Michael: Gave up his family's company to find his own way. Owns a very famous club. His cousin dragged him to a classical music show once and since then he has become a big fan of the pianist.
Michaela: Took over her family's company. Recently crushed her car right outside a musical gala and almost hit a pianist. Brought her a huge piano as an apology
Gregory: Owns a fertility clinic....
Lucy: Therapist, specializes in couple's therapy. Divorced. Recently visited a fertility clinic, realized she doesn't need a man to be a mother
Hyacinth: Detective. Has a perfect record. Loves a good challenge and a mystery
Gareth: A conman. Would put Niel Caffery to shame.