AIO husband advice?
throwaway account, obviously.
so this happened this week and i still don't know what to think. some woman i've never met messages me out of nowhere on fb messager it went to spam and I happened to randomly check it earlier today, saying her kid works with my husband and he's been making female coworkers uncomfortable, AND that he's bragging to people he swapped my birth control for sugar pills.
My birth control is blister packs so obviously id notice if that was true, secondly the man cant spemd shit without me knowing about it i control all the finances. SO my husband was running his mouth about something that isn't even true, or this whole message is made up for some reason i can't figure out. Which im not even surprised that he would brag about that. I also found out im about 8 weeks pregnant a few days ago...
the part that's actually eating at me though isn't even that. it's that he's said multiple separate times, not as one dumb joke, that getting married made him "more attractive to other women." like that's just a thing he says now.
i'm pregnant, home alone with our 11 month old most of the day already, and this is what i get to deal with on top of it. Is the "marriage made me hotter to women" line as big a red flag as it feels like right now, or am i overreacting? and has anyone else gotten a random message like this out of nowhere is it ever legit, or is it always some kind of angle? I got my cpc certificate in may and have been job hunting like crazy but I dont have much Healthcare experience and have only gotten 1 interview that didnt even seem remotely interested in actually hiring me. We cant really afford childcare on just his income and now im even more lost with another on the way, and absolutely pissed off. Update next day i sent him and his mom the messages and had a miscarriage a few hours later so I havent began to mess with this.