u/Thr00ow-aWay2

So I'm 15, transmasc and considering coming out to my mum.

I know she'll be supportive, like I'm not in any danger there but I'm still scared.

I guess I'm worried it'll change our relationship, we haven't always been close, but we are now and I'm really scared telling her will mess up everything again or make it awkward or something.

The other problem is she really hates men. Like fair enough, the men she dates are all fucking chuds but she's like super feminist and I'm worried having a son will make her sad.

But on the other hand if i tell her I can probably get like boxers, packers and a binder and shit wich would be nice and plus I wanna go on T when I'm older so I'm gonna have to tell her at some point.

Any advice? Like on how to make it less awkward? Should I wait? Idk guys

Hello

I've been identifying as genderfluid for like 2 years at this point but recently I've started to consider that I might just be transmasc and delusional😭 (a common pipeline i know) and with that I've considered changing my name finally

So top contender for me rn is Sebastian, idk man it's js very special to me and I think it sounds nice and very ✨️gender✨️ for me as someone who isn't binary trans

Anyway I was wondering if you guys could help me decide if I like it and maybe interact with/ talk about me in the comments using the name?? Maybe that's weird but idk I'm not ready to tell ppl irl yet and probably won't be for a long time (took me months to ask my friends to use my pronouns😭)

Also my best friend told me it was a shit name when I first mentioned liking the name in passing so like is it really that bad?? Cuz I've been spiraling lol

Basic interests are art, music and video games but I'm open to any discussions even if yall wanna rant about ur interests I'm down to listen :]

My pronouns are he/they

Thank you 😁