i haven’t had a proper meal in 5 days, but i need to go further into the abyss. What is a better alcohol to drink value and calories wise?
i tried bring positive and going healthy but that was more miserable than the alcohol bingeing. I realise now, alcohol is the cure for everything but I don’t want to gain weight especially if not eating, beer just bloating me
I don’t even know what happened. We were seeing each other for 3 months, I thought things were going really well, even up until the point she ghosted.
We were texting up until 2am on Friday night (almost 3 weeks ago now) then I just didn’t hear from her again.
She has since been active a lot on social media and clearly posting stories to get other guy’s attention.
I miss her and want to reach out, but she has still left my messages on delivered for a couple of weeks.
I don’t know why either but it’s really hit me hard, harder than some of my past 2-3 year+ relationships ending.
I have been trying to accept it and move on but not knowing what happened is driving me crazy.
My birthday is next week, we were supposed to have plans together (that she was planning mind you), but I can’t even get her to reply anymore. She posts stories constantly, goes live on yubo/tiktok… she doesn’t seem depressed (she had ghosted once early on for 3 days due to some illness/depression) but this is something else.
Had been seeing this girl for 2 months and it was going well, she ghosted previously for about 5 days but came back and explained she gets depressed because she’s not working and her gender dysphoria gets bad sometimes.
after that it was going great again, and because of her struggling and also to buy clothes for our next dinner date. I sent $500 and it went great for 2 days but then she ghosted again and its been a week tomorrow, she has been extremely active on socials though and posting tiktoks in the clothes i bought her.
she messaged me on tuesday morning and said she would tell me later why she hasn’t responded to me, but still hasn’t given me the explanation.
we had a brief conversation on snap when she first posted the clothes and she kinda gave me attitude about why i was asking why she didn’t tell me they arrived
i still like this girl and i understand she’s probably avoidant, but this is getting
ridiculous now
is it worth calling her?