u/ThrowRA_joo

Hey guys i come here asking this because i need help big times 😭. Me and my (cis) bf have been together for a year and we have occasionally done PIA with him on the recieving end.

A few times i wanted to try some backdoor play and he tried with just a finger and honestly it was fine, no pain, no burning. But still, i get freaked out and bail out almost immediately. Yesterday we tried again and the same thing happen. He told me i should try in my own (so i can understand better how far i can actually go) but i don’t know how to get comfortable with doing the act on my own.

I don’t know if i’d like using toys but maybe i could try with a small one (suggestions?). I really want to do anal with my boyfriend and I am really just freaking out for no reason 😭. I get scared of getting hurt even tho i’m feeling no pain.

Hello, i don’t know if this makes sense but i hope you guys know what i mean lol. I would like to have one of those little reference wooden mannequins (?) but in digital form so i can use it whenever i am on my ipad/phone.

Anyone has any app/program/site suggestion?

I hope this is ok to post on this sub, otherwise feel free to redirect me to a more appropriate one.

M(23) i still live with my parents at home (🫠) and tho it’s becoming incresingly difficult that’s just how it goes for now.

I have a boyfriend (M22) of a year and a half and my parents kinda know. I haven’t told them outright, but they definitely caught on they are not stupid.

In a few weeks he’s mom’s going to go out of town and he told me i can sleep there. I told my dad that in that day we are all probabily going to sleep at my friend’s house. I told a pretty belivable lie to be fair.

I don’t know if my dad believed me or caught on to me lol. I don’t think he would care much if i told him, my mom on the other hand would flip out. But there is not much problem since she hasn’t been really speaking to much much lately.

I have fucked up levels of anxiety so i’m anxtious that they will find out, tho there is no real way they would. Also i feel bad for lying, but i also know i’m an adult. And and feel kinda silly since me and him (and our friend group) have a trip planned and are going to spend a week sleeping in the same bed, so isn’t that much different? Lol. I don’t know