u/Tight-Elderberry443

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Toast me. 22m feeling dejected cause I feel like I look way younger than I actually am

Last year I got "15" twice. I still think about that. Granted, when I received those comments my hair was shorter and I had no facial hair but still. I doubt something's changed. Have no friends to ask anyway.

On top of all that relapsed on alcohol yesterday. My depression and anxiety have been really kicking my ass lately.

Thought I was getting better.

u/Tight-Elderberry443 — 12 hours ago

Most epic Maiden tracks that give you full body chills?

Stratego chorus is one such example for me. Everytime gets me. "Ocean is black, the devils track" and then how it keeps building every two bars first with guitar harmonies then vocal harmonies and then cool drum syncopations. Just so fucking epic.

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u/Tight-Elderberry443 — 20 hours ago

Does anyone else's hair look like shit if you don't wash it every day? I hear all the time if you have long hair you shouldn't be washing it daily but I'm the opposite it seems.

Is this uncommon? (I have shoulder length hair)

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u/Tight-Elderberry443 — 1 day ago

does anyone else feel like the last 2 albums have been lackluster? there are good songs here and there, even a few excellent ones, but overall they're not great albums unlike the four before them (BNW, DoD, AMOLAD, TFF)

its not even that they're lower quality per se, just that they're a bit boring, I guess.

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u/Tight-Elderberry443 — 3 days ago

It's so tough when you don't have friends in your early 20s, supposedly the most social years of your life.

Im an ambivert. I need my alone time but also love socializing. Being alone all the time makes me lose sight of who i am and what is real. I start dissociating. I hate it so much.

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u/Tight-Elderberry443 — 7 days ago

Why do people expect you to work so much nowadays? 10 hours a day has been normalized. Its such bs.

Growing up its always been 40 hours a week, 8 hours a day. And even that always felt like a lot to me. Now im in my 20s and suddenly everyone expects you to work 10-12 hours a day sometimes 6 days a week. What the fuck? I dont have time for anything anymore. Not for hobbies, not even for simple relaxation. I cant imagine a decade more of this let alone multiple decades. This is hell. This is fucked. And people wonder why suicide rates are up. Gtfo LMAO.

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u/Tight-Elderberry443 — 9 days ago

What does the lyric "Just rotten luck or jonahed" mean in the Talisman, specifically that j-word. I can't find it in the dictionary so Im a tad bit confused.

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u/Tight-Elderberry443 — 11 days ago

Formerly depressed people of this sub, what did you do to become whole again?

I mean like other than therapy and medication. Because none of that shit helps me. Wondering what else I could try, but lack the imagination. help a brother out, I've been down for too many years.

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u/Tight-Elderberry443 — 13 days ago

How can i look more my age?

22m here but constantly told i look like a teenager. Its frustrating especially when im tryna buy booze lol. Last year i was told i look like a 15 yo and i still havent recovered from that 🫩

Im 5'9.5, dress casually, have long hair, no facial hair (cant grow much). If that helps.

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u/Tight-Elderberry443 — 14 days ago