Why do old people live alone in the West?
Apologies if this question offends anyone in any way, I don’t mean any disrespect. I was born and raised in an Asian country and moved to the UK around 9 years ago. Because of the line of work i’m in, I have seen lots of elderly people living alone or in care homes. I always wonder why don’t they move in with their sons/daughters? Wouldn’t that be a lot better for them to spend the last years of their lives with their children and grandchildren? Not saying this is wrong or anything but I just want to understand the logic or reasoning behind this.
Where I come from, parents tend to stay with their children till they die. Care homes do exist but they are occupied by people who have kind of fallen out with their children or dont have any children at all.
EDIT: Thank you to everyone who answered. I really learned a lot and received different perspectives. And to clarify, i do not think this is a bad/negative thing. In fact, it does sound a lot better in some regards. Also, I do realise that the Asian way of this situation is not all amazing and blissful and perfect. We have assholes who become the ‘elderly’ too.
I would also like to add that I do understand this is a difference of culture and I am completely open to it I just wanted to know different people’s opinions.