u/Tired_yet_cute

I am 29 but it seems to me that I am more popular with younger men 20-25 than my age or a few years older. The youngest one who hit on me was 19 😭. Have you ever dated younger men?

Hey sisters . I want read about the experience of other girls who returned to college later . I kept flunking because of mental health issues but I would be back to square one as the overarching cause of it all (my gender dysphoria) was not addressed because transition terrified me until I was backed into a corner. I will be returning this fall. I will be a 14 months into hormones by fall. I took 2 years to work on my mental health and then my transition . I have a year and a half left.

I admit I can’t help but feel insecure. I feel like dysphoria held me back compared to people my age. Saving grace is I look younger for my age and I pass so I won’t stand out like a sore thumb. I wanna read about your experiences ?

We made eye contact I just wanted to be nice. Ugh this is why I am not involved in the trans community. I feel like I will be stabbed in the back at some point because she was jealous all this time.

The recovery time is long. Up to a year before the 🐈 is recovered and ready to feed lol. How did you and your man come up with something? Did you do just oral? If I am not mistaken you can’t use the back door either?

Dressing very provocatively in an attempt to attract the male gaze. Have extensive work done like bbl, fillers, implants literally no difference from gender affirming care that a lot of our sisters get. They might say they don’t recognize us as women but they’re subconsciously treating us as women by treating us like how they treat other women who they deem as competition, women who prevent them from being picked. Just with a different set of insults.

I am beginning to feel extreme yearning for intimacy and closeness but I am just not attracted to anyone but one. So many guys like me, I get tons of matches , get hit on in the gym etc but no one catches my fancy. Unfortunately , I have strong feelings for someone who is taken. Albeit this guy is showing signs he is also attracted to me and is guilty about it, I am a girls girl and will not ruin another woman’s happiness. I also won’t make the same mistake other girls make of hopping into a relationship with a man I am not heads over heels for just to not be alone.

I don‘t have anything in my routine that puts me in a situation where I meet lots of people. Maaaybe when I finish my final year of university this September (took a year off due to dysphoria) but even then I will be busy with classes to worry about that. How did you all meet your man?

I was at the mall today. I was descending the escalator. A few steps down from me was a girl and below her was her bf. I was minding my own business on my headphones when suddenly the bf started checking me out. She noticed, looked back to me to check if I was initiating it then moved right to block me from his line of sight. I heard her say “what the fuck” to him . She looked mad. At least she knows I got nothing to do with that I don’t even find her man attractive lol.

I’ll start. My name is the feminized version of my deadname but it has a deeper sentimental meaning than that. My mother would call me that when she made fun of me for acting feminine and “wimpy” as a kid. I reclaimed it and in a twisted way, my mother was still the one who named me.

Pre egg cracking I’ve also used that name when playing girl characters in games.

10 months HRT now. The mones treated me well. I pass well enough now that evangelical and Mormon preachers in the street invite me to Church calling me “miss” or “sweetheart“(not American and I know how transphobic American churches are).

I really want a boyfriend and men are showing interest but I am so deathly afraid of negative reactions to me and getting hate crimed. I went to a club 2 months ago. This French tourist guy went up to me, chatted me up and danced with me but I was so afraid to show enthusiasm that he gave up. Last week, the hot front desk guy at my gym smiled at me and when I was on the spin bike I looked back and saw him checking me out again and even took a last glance before leaving but I said nothing, once more. It has happened a few more times. Last weekend, I went to a rave and the tall, dark, really buff security guy that every girl and gay man is lusting on was looking at me , smiling. He was not being subtle at all. He wanted to get caught. But again, your girl did nothing out of fear. I’ve been given a gift and so far I am wasting it.

Like, how do I flirt with men while staying safe ? I’m 5’4 and HRT nuked all my muscles, no way I can defend myself 😭