I made it to Bucharest

I made it to Bucharest

I made it to Bucharest I could somehow manage again to come to my wife

I cooked her so many dishes and I'm so thankful because again my neighbour helped me , I'm now in debt to him even more but it doesn't matter πŸ₯Ή

The most important thing is that I managed to come to my wife.

Please support us how you can share our story this helps more than you imagine and it doesn't cost anything.

Thank you for the support and nice words so far πŸ©·πŸ™

https://4fund.com/ds6x72

u/TitanAmz β€” 14 hours ago

I don't need much just enough to buy her food and consumables

Tomorrow I need to go visit her I don't need much just enough to buy her food diapers and for the train tickets.

Please if you have the possibility to donate everything will be so much appreciated share my post so other people with better financial situations can see my post and maybe help us .

Lately because of everyone's help and support my wife is getting better on the mentally side because I tell her everything when I go visit her , I tell her that because of you people our daughters have food and a better living because of you I'm able to visit her and buy her anything she needs.

Again I have no words for all the support, you are our heros, I wish my wife will be able to walk again, as I said in previous posts International TB Commission did not agree with her treatment to be changed, this was her chance to come home at least temporary, the treatment thar she have not is affecting her white blood cells, and because of this the risk of any infection is high.

I will keep posting everything is happening because you are part of my family πŸ₯Ή 🩷

https://4fund.com/ds6x72

u/TitanAmz β€” 1 day ago
β–² 2 r/depression

I'm being sad

I'm being sad because of one incident that happened with my wife our lifes are upside down...

I'm sad to see I'm travelling 200 km daily to get to work I stay here 8-10 h ...

We also have two daughters, and I'm sad because even though I work at the end I struggle to survive, every month since my wife got sick , I tried to provide to our daughters and such ...

I'm sad really sad because I work and on the salary day all my money goes to debts and bills ...

Im so sad but this is life , life sometimes is unfair... My wife did nothing wrong to suffer this much ... Our daughters did nothing wrong to have this life ...

I want please just some good words to make me stronger, now I'm at work and I feel like ... I don't know how to say it but people pass me and ask me why I'm sad .. if I'm alright.

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u/TitanAmz β€” 3 days ago
β–² 0 r/donateorborrow+1 crossposts

Stll not losing hope

Unfortunately the decision has been made , my wife will remain in the hospital for an unknown period,

Due to the treatment, white blood cells decrease greatly, which is why the risk of infections is very high.

This is the final reason why she can no longer come home, according to Mrs. Doctor.

Now I have to go to her hospital again, I have to cook for her and buy her adult diapers and wipes and whatever else she needs.

Last week I spent almost €150 just on what I needed for her needs, on the food I cooked and took to her, I also mention that part of this amount I also bought for our daughters as well food clothes and. The transport is incredibly essential

Finally, please help me go to her and get her everything she needs.

https://4fund.com/ds6x72

u/TitanAmz β€” 3 days ago
β–² 14 r/donateorborrow+1 crossposts

We got bad news I'm so sad 😭

As you may know from my previous posts my wife got a different treatment which the doctors said will be better for her.

And now there are again complications with her liver 😭😭, she needs to stay in hospital now more time , I'm so sad because the doctors said she will come home for a accomodation period ( one week) and now she will not come anymore, I'm so sad ... Because I told our daughter she will come home ... And now she is not coming anymore, I don't know how to tell her ... Because she is waiting for her home ...

I'm so sad but at the same time happy because at home we don't have the conditions to but maybe with your help I will be able to do these as well πŸ˜­πŸ™

The sadness of my heart right now is unimaginable 😭

May god be with us and help us get through this situation 😭

https://4fund.com/ds6x72

u/TitanAmz β€” 4 days ago

Update about our situation πŸ™

Hello I'm so happy to announce that I was able to buy a used wheelchair for my wife with a part of the donation we got so far πŸ₯ΉπŸ©·

I'm exhausted because I wake up at 03:00 I went to work , and after that I was driving to the capital ( Bucharest ) from where I got the wheelchair.

I bought some food for our daughters as well and now I'm home 23:00.

I'm so happy because with your help I was able to do so many things and I'm so thankful πŸ™

I want to let you know that every amount given to us it's used well πŸ₯Ή

I visited my wife today as well and I bought her some water because she drinks all the water I bought her on the weekend πŸ˜… bought her some special food ( pastry with cheese) .

https://4fund.com/ds6x72

u/TitanAmz β€” 5 days ago

Update about our situation πŸ™

Hello I'm so happy to announce that I was able to buy a used wheelchair for my wife with a part of the donation we got so far πŸ₯ΉπŸ©·

I'm exhausted because I wake up at 03:00 I went to work , and after that I was driving to the capital ( Bucharest ) from where I got the wheelchair.

I bought some food for our daughters as well and now I'm home 23:00.

I'm so happy because with your help I was able to do so many things and I'm so thankful πŸ™

I want to let you know that every amount given to us it's used well πŸ₯Ή

I visited my wife today as well and I bought her some water because she drinks all the water I bought her on the weekend πŸ˜… bought her some special food ( pastry with cheese) .

https://4fund.com/ds6x72

u/TitanAmz β€” 5 days ago
β–² 2 r/donateorborrow+2 crossposts

Update incredible news 😭 about my wife

I got called today from the hospital and the doctor, she said Friday she will permit my wife to come home for a week or two it depends on how she will react.

But here comes the disadvantage I have right now, I need a new bed and a special mattress that It inflates and deflates, this helps her not get injured because she's sitting down most of the time ,they have something like that at the hospital

I couldn't find any state-paid physiotherapy nearby that was covered by health insurance.And she needs something like water because that's the only way she'll be able to walk again.

This was unexpected and even though I'm so happy I want to offer her all conditions needed πŸ˜­πŸ™

I will need urinary catheters because I have to do this because it alone does not eliminate everything and because of this, it risks major infections.

With the treatment I think in the end the doctor found a way , but I will ask again tomorrow.

I know how to do this because I received training in the hospital, so I have to do this once every 12 hours.

Again thank you for all your support thanks to you people yesterday she was very happy I cooked her so many dishes I bought her all the things she wanted 😭🩷

Again you can help us in so many ways, not only with money, if you have the possibility, and that will not affect you by anything it will be a huge help .

I will keep you updated about anything I buy, because I feel in debt to you people and I want you to make sure I'm making good use of your help πŸ™πŸ₯Ή

I'm so tired because of work, but I have to prepare soup for the little ones 🩷

I love you all because you slowly give me hope and faith πŸ™

https://4fund.com/ds6x72

u/TitanAmz β€” 1 day ago
β–² 17 r/donateorborrow+1 crossposts

Update

With your help now I'm able to go to my wife's hospital πŸ₯ΉπŸ©·

I'm so happy and thankful.

I bought her food I cooked her so many dishes yesterday. I cooked for our daughters as well a delicious soup and fried some chicken, I couldn't even eat because I was looking at them being so happy having such good food 😭.

In the end I want to say that your help matters and even , if it doesn't look like it, since I started to post and see the support that you people offer us , I feel better mentally πŸ₯Ή

In the end, again I want to thank you a lot πŸ™

For everyone who still wants to help us here is the link

https://4fund.com/ds6x72

u/TitanAmz β€” 8 days ago

Update about my wife 🩷

Hello as always I try to keep it in touch with you people πŸ™

Now I'm at work and I'm thinking about Sunday when I will go to my wife.

She is getting better but I need to make improvements at home because from what doctors said it's possible to let her come home for a while and see how things goes.

Again I'm so happy I have someone to speak with about our issue.

Our daughters are fine yesterday I cooked for them .

I'm still in need because I have so many things to do and so many other debts to pay , but I'm sure with your help this will be possible πŸ₯Ή

I'm not asking for much little bit from everyone can help us a lot .

Im so positive more than ever because, I was in the place where I was about to end my life , but somehow someone push me back from this thoughts.

So in the end even though I have so many debts even though I starve even though I don't sleep all that matters are my wife to recover and get back on her feet and our daughters to have anything they need.

In this way your help matters a lot because of the surroundings I so vulnerable financially.

But with your help I'm sure this can be changed that why I'm so thankful and grateful for anything you did for me so far people 🩷

You can easily donate in any currency through the link below, again thank you for anything so farπŸ™πŸ©·

https://4fund.com/ds6x72

u/TitanAmz β€” 9 days ago
β–² 6 r/poverty

Thankful and grateful for everything

Hello my name is Marian and I want to share with you my story,

Since January this year my wife got diagnosed with meningoencephalitis acute tbc and later on with bone tbc as well she is 23 y

She has been in a state of being in clinic death almost, but a miracle was made and she is still alive.

She went through and intervention at the brain and a major one to the spine .

Now things are going better we still have a long way, but with the help from everyone, the doctors, and all the people who support us and help us with whatever they have I'm able to smile with our two daughters πŸ₯Ή

I'm really thankful and happy 🩷

Thank you for reading I wish you a wonderful day

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u/TitanAmz β€” 10 days ago

Update regarding treatment

As always I try to keep it updated about anything, I'm happy to announce that my wife's treatment was changed to a better one that is not very toxic for her liver.

I'm so happy and I can't wait to visit her on Sunday, I'm so thankful to see your support it means a lot πŸ₯Ή

Now as the doctor said my priorities are to make her better condition when she will come back home , of course because the treatment was changed now she needs to stay under observation for a while.

And about the conditions home all I need is a new bed a new wardrobe a bigger one , clothing for her , and most important thing therapy for recovering her movement , it's so expensive, and she need it because I can make with her exercises but she needs a specialized and trained person for it , and the worst is that the therapist needs to come home because I can't drive her to institute.

But I'm sure I'm sure with your help this can be possible, I can't wait to visit her because she asked me to cook some food and she is so happy to have to I cook for her πŸ™πŸ©·

Of course I have to buy the consumables as well.

I'm so happy because there are signs that my wife is getting better, of course because of the damage made by the infection at the brain she is not a normal person how it use to be anymore, but even id she is in this state I will never let her and I will love her more than ever 🩷.

Thank you for reading I hope your day will be as good as mine πŸ€—

https://4fund.com/ds6x72

u/TitanAmz β€” 11 days ago

I'm so thankful and grateful

In this morning I wake up to an amazing surprise after so long we received our first donation, the details about the donor are hidden but I want to thank you from my heart now with this I will be able to go now to buy some groceries, I will be able to pay part of my debt to my neighbour I will even be able to buy my wife almost anything she needs to hospital πŸ™πŸ˜­

About my wife's situation I didn't receive any news , about the treatment, because due to some complications needs to be changed

I'm so thankful and happy my beloved people πŸ™

Is it possible, it is really possible with your help to be able to get back on my feet and be able again to provide my daughters to be with my wife, is it possible with your help to make some changes in our room , and make my wife better condition, is possible maybe with your help to buy her a wheelchair.

Again I have no words yesterday I was so sad and depressed thinking about anything and how I should proceed, but I see there is still hope and I need to stay positive 🩷

I'm really thankful for all the support from the mods, you are amazing people, for watching my posts πŸ₯Ή

Today I feel it will be a good day , I hope for everyone as well it will be a good day , I'm so happy that it doesn't even matter today I have to do overtime at work

Again your positive feedback means a lot , if you can help with anything, if you have different possibilities I will be for eternity really thankfull πŸ™

https://4fund.com/ds6x72

u/TitanAmz β€” 12 days ago
β–² 5 r/donateorborrow+1 crossposts

Update : The treatment needs to be changed again

Hi , I'm so sad to announce that a few minutes ago I got called from the hospital by my wife's doctor, she said the treatment for tbc needs to be changed again because my wife's liver can't endure the current treatment anymore.

I don't know really at this point to do with my whole situation and in general life.

My wife dad is arguing with me every day to make him the one who takes care of my wife like this he will have salary and he will be able to pay for his debts .

My mom is cursing me and constantly tell me to take my daughter and come back home and let my wife alone and her daughters...

At work even though I do everything I can it seems that is never enough.

I'm so sad because I don't know how I got in this situation...

I beg you πŸ™ please don't let me down we start to run low in everything, I get my salary on 10 07, i can't borrow money from anyone anymore, I have to go this Sunday again to my wife , I need to provide my daughters as well, I need to work as well ...

I get literally no support from my mom and her parents.

I'm in such situation and sometimes I really think about ending in, but I think about our daughters 😭

Please help us with anything you can πŸ™

https://4fund.com/ds6x72

u/TitanAmz β€” 9 days ago
β–² 0 r/AskForHelp

Asking for help, please read you may be able to help πŸ™

My wife has been diagnosed with meningoencephalitis acute tbc and bone tbc, she went through brain surgery ok February and spine surgery after she was stabilised in March

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Right now she is in intensive care please help us be able to survive.

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This week the doctors said she will come home but right now she is unable to walk due to the affected spine by the bone tbc.

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I'm in need of so many things our room is not in good shape , I need a special bed for her , I need a wheelchair, the doctor from hosptital tried to get us one knowing that I have a poor situation but she couldn't.

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I work 40+ week and I travel 200 km daily, because of the situation I had to make her insurance to pay for uncovered treatment, to also provide and take care of our daughters these 3 months when I didn't work.

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I didn't work for 3 months to be with our daughters and with my wife in her critical period this was a period of hell when all the doctors said that due to the situation and the amount of damage my wife has at her brain they don't give her so many chances, knowing this I wanted to be with her more and in February I visited her daily traveling 200 km just to be able to see her 5 minutes 😭

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Because of this I'm late with the debts, I also made more 😭 to be able to provide my daughters to visit my wife at the hospital.

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Each month I get about $750-800 from which the bank takes $500-600 .

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Please if you have different possibilities different surroundings, different financial situations, I can accept any form of help .

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I will answer to anybody comments if something is unclear or you want more information

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Here is the fundraising I made almost 4 months πŸ™

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Thank you very much for reading πŸ₯Ή

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https://4fund.com/ds6x72

u/TitanAmz β€” 14 days ago

Im so thankful and almost in tears, but I still need your help more then ever

I got called from the hospital and the doctor said that it is possible in the following weeks my wife will come back home .

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I'm so sad because at home now I don't have the necessary condition for her , but I hope with your help this will be possible.

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The doctor said that she will need a wheelchair and unfortunately the hospital cannot give me one she already tried to find a way to know my poor situation.

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In our room I need to buy a new bed to paint the walls , to buy her new clothing because she lost a lot of weight from 92 kg now she has 63 .

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Please I beg everyone who can help , if there are other ways how you can help us please πŸ₯Ί

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I'm so happy nobody can understand, but looking around and seeing the conditions we have makes me cry .

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I hope I really hope with your help my posts will reach these people who might have the possibility to help .

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I wish everyone health because without this look what's happening 😭

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I'm so thankful that even in this situation I have a job and I'm still able to work , even though it's hard and I struggle even If sometimes I starve, I hope eventually the wheel will spin in our favour, I hope I will pass this test God put upon us 🩷

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I will never let my wife and kids alone no matter what happens , because I love them they are my everything πŸ₯Ή

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If there are other ways how you can help us im willing to accept anything πŸ™

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Here is the link for the fundraising campaign I made for my wife 3 months ago , if there are any unclear information I'm available for any other details or proof πŸ™

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God please make a miracle again πŸ™

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https://4fund.com/ds6x72

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u/TitanAmz β€” 14 days ago

I still have hopes and I'm so thankful and positive πŸ™

Hello I managed to borrow money from one of my neighbours and now I'm on the train heading to Bucharest at the hospital where my wife is in intensive care πŸ₯Ή

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I'm so thankful to my neighbour because he borrowed me the necessary money to make it possible to go to my wife.

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I'm still positive and I have big hopes with your help someone eventually will come across my post and it will be willing to help us .

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Even though nobody helped us with any donations I'm still positive that someone eventually with better surroundings better opportunities better financially situation will help us πŸ™

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The situation at home I can't say is bad but not good as well, I struggle with the food and try out one whole chicken to cook for three days πŸ˜…

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When I come back from Bucharest I will buy some potatoes and onion with the remaining money

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The little one now started to have a fever and doesn't eat like before because she has one tooth that is growing up.

I have to buy her something for the pain as well πŸ₯Ή

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People I'm so thankful and happy I can go to my wife because I can see her only once per week πŸ˜”

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Tomorrow I have to work as well and I'm happy because it's considered overtime and I will be paid more usually on the weekend they don't call me at work 🩷

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For anyone who can help us in other ways with other methods please let me know I can accept everything 🀲

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May god bless you and everyone πŸ™

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https://4fund.com/ds6x72

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u/TitanAmz β€” 16 days ago

My wife made huge progress today but we still need help πŸ™

I'm glad to announce that my wife made today her first steps after 6 months of course helped by two medical assistants.

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I'm still in so much need πŸ₯Ή even though there is still no donations I'm so happy about the news I got today.

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I will get my salary next month on 10 until then I have to survive somehow, I still hope someone with better situations then me will come across this post and it will be willing to help me.

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Saturday I have to go to the hospital I have to cook her some food , I have to buy necessary things for her ( diaper for adults and wipes)

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I tried to contact all my friends to barrow me some money but no one could 😭

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I'm so unstable mentally financially and physically but I have to go to work I have to keep my head up , I need to fight .

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Because my wife is fighting as well , my daughters don't need to know that we don't have nothing.

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Hopefully hopefully I pray πŸ™ someone kindly enough with better surroundings better opportunities better financially situation will come across and have mercy on us

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Anything doesn't matter how small it is a little bit from everyone can become a lot for me πŸ₯ΉπŸ©·

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If you have different possibilities of donation via everything please please let me know πŸ™

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Because of my country I couldn't make the fundraising campaign on other site πŸ˜”

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I post down the link to the fundraising campaign which is verified and approved by site staff, also my profile is verified, I linked my Facebook account to Reddit as well , I know I have this account I understand from others that I don't show any trust but please don't turn your back on me .

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If you made it here , I appreciate you for taking your time reading all of this 🩷

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May the right one bless you and everyone πŸ™

https://4fund.com/ds6x72

u/TitanAmz β€” 17 days ago
β–² 0 r/AskForHelp

Help a father in need

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Hello I post here a request for people who are willing to help, my name is Marian im a father of two daughters since January my wife was diagnosed with meningoencephalitis acute tbc , and bone tbc , because of her condition and the kids i had to stay home for 3 months I had days off without payment from work.

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In this period i spent all our savings, now even after starting work I can't get back every month my salary since April is gone paying debts, and after I have to struggle providing my daughters visiting my wife at hospital going to work .

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What I need to get back to normal is about 1500 € this is an urgent amount I need. The goal of the campaign is anyway impossible to achieve, i know this is in incredible amount of money but i have faith in you people I hope God will not leave me once again and it will make a miracle how it did with my wife and my daughters

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I will post proof of anything I will pay to banks , because this is what destroys me , I'm one month behind with the debts and I can't afford to pay them as well to provide my daughters.

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If you can support us in other way we will gladly appreciate, for further information I'm available with anything you need

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I attached paperwork from hospitals , again if you are not sure about something please please ask me before judging

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I love you all

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https://4fund.com/ds6x72

u/TitanAmz β€” 20 days ago

Please help me get a normal life again

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Hello I post here a request for people who are willing to help, my name is Marian im a father of two daughters since January my wife is intensive care she was diagnosed with meningoencephalitis acute tbc , and bone tbc , because of her condition and the kids i had to stay home for 3 months I had days off without payment from work.

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In this period i spent all our savings, now even after starting work I can't get back every month my salary since April is gone paying debts, and after I have to struggle providing my daughters visiting my wife at hospital going to work .

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What I need to get back to normal is about 1500 € this is an urgent amount I need. The goal of the campaign is anyway impossible to achieve, i know this is in incredible amount of money but i have faith in you people I hope God will not leave me once again and it will make a miracle how it did with my wife and my daughters

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I will post proof of anything I will pay to banks , because this is what destroys me , I'm one month behind with the debts and I can't afford to pay them as well to provide my daughters.

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If you can support us in other way we will gladly appreciate, for further information I'm available with anything you need

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I attached paperwork from hospitals , again if you are not sure about something please please ask me before judging

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I love you all

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https://4fund.com/ds6x72

u/TitanAmz β€” 20 days ago