New diagnosis and feeling gutted

Hi all,

My 69 year old mother was diagnosed with "poorly differentiated adenocarcinoma of the right lung (lower lobe) with focal sarcomatoid features". Her biopsy this Wednesday was positive for TTF-1 and napsin A (patchy) and negative for p40, which the report says supports lung adenocarcinoma. She smoked for 12 years but quit over 30 years ago and does not drink or any other substances.

Her PD-L1 TPS is 70%. EGFR and ALK testing are currently pending, and the pathology report says there is adequate tissue for additional biomarker testing.

Her primary tumor is in the right lower lobe, currently about 2.4 cm but there is a new 0.8-cm satellite nodule in the same right lower lobe and both 4R mediastinal lymph nodes and 11R lymph node are also positive.

Her PET/CT in late June showed no destructive bone lesions. However, the primary tumor has grown 1 centimeter via the pre-biospy CT and bronchoscopy.

We haven't met with oncology yet, so we don't have an official stage or treatment plan. I know this is the hardest part but I'm screaming inside! She is a caregiver to my younger brother who has advanced schizophrenia. I'm worried sick for him both mentally and physically.

The words “poorly differentiated” and “focal sarcomatoid features” are especially scary to me. I'd really appreciate hearing from anyone with lung adenocarcinoma with similar pathology because my brain is immediately going to Pulmonary sarcomatoid carcinoma which seems like essentially a death sentence. 😭

What treatment did you receive, and was surgery still an option after initial treatment? I plan to requested further biomaker testing and have gathered all of her physical reports and scans to try to get a second opinion. Grasping at straws I suppose, but i have to stay busy or I'll crumble.

Just adding for context- I'm 47 years old and my mother and I did not have a great relationship until about 8 years ago. We had a lot of family trauma that neither of us properly dealt with but we finally made amends and are extremely close now. I never met my father. I feel like I finally have a parent and she's being ripped away.

I'm sorry if I sound all over the place, but i mentally am right now. If you made it this far, thanks for listening

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u/TooManyHobbies00 — 5 days ago

Volunteer. Is it a Baddie or can it stay?

Kansas City, MO- Northeast facing, moist soil

Every app IDs something different but I believe it to be a type of loosestrife. I've been working hard to replace non-native invasives and am pulling up the ajuga this fall but wondering if this needs to go now before it fully buds out.

Thanks!

u/TooManyHobbies00 — 3 months ago

Orange Oak Bedroom Set

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I inherited this full bedroom set (bed, nightstands, dresser and chest of drawers) from my parent after she upgraded. It's a Cochrane piece probably from the early 2000s. I'd like to modernize and refinish to a more neutral dark brown.

Painting is not and option. However, I've never refinished a piece of furniture and I'm extremely overwhelmed with the thought of stripping and sanding all of these pieces. I tossed around the idea of gel staining but a lot of what I see online looks streaky and just not great overall.

I already plant to update the feet and hardware.

I'm open to all feedback

u/TooManyHobbies00 — 3 months ago
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Military Divorce Jurisdiction Questions

Location: Jacksonville, NC U.S.

Mv son was informed while on deplovment that his wife has drafted seperation paperwork with intent to divorce She has already moved out of the marital home that was purchased in NC where my son is stationed

Thev are both from Missouri.

Can Missouri be used as "home of record" for filing a petition for dissolution or do they have to use NC and go through the 1 year seperation process?

Additionallv, Does a seperation petition need to be on file in NC for a year before divorce proceedings can be initiated?

Appreciate the help during this difficult time.

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u/TooManyHobbies00 — 3 months ago

Military Divorce Jurisdiction Question

Location: Jacksonville NC

My son was informed while on deployment that his wife has drafted seperation paperwork with intent to divorce. She has already moved out of the marital home that was purchased in NC where my son is stationed.

They are both from Missouri. Can Missouri be used as "home of record" for filing a petition for dissolution or do they have to use NC and go through the 1 year seperation process?

Additionally, Does a seperation petition need to be on file in NC for a year before divorce proceedings can be initiated?

Appreciate the help during this difficult time.

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u/TooManyHobbies00 — 3 months ago