
Partner doesn’t want to work
Me and my partner with a baby boy live in a top 5 city to live in California so rent pretty expensive and everything in general and just saw how much I’ve made this month at my pretty decent paying job which is $6057 for the month yet I’m still left with $21 in my account and no matter how many times I try to talk to her about budgeting instead of always trying to spend money she cares for a week then goes back to her saying “ let’s go out and get food “ or “ let’s go to a amusement park “ and when I say no she just gets mad and when I say mad I mean it.
She try’s to say “ oh for your ex you would’ve done it “ when that comparison is bs cause when I was with that person I didn’t have to pay 3k in bills a month.
Our son is 8 months old now and he’s pretty independent when it comes to sleeping on his own and playing so I’ve asked her to have her sister watch our son while she work and she doesn’t want to. just says that as a women she should be able to stay home while I am the sole provider and that I’m not being fair.
luckily, we aren’t officially married yet but This entitled/not respecting my budget behavior has been questioning whether I even wanna get married and just end up coparenting 100%.
Jolly rancher c4 I buy in bulk to save money