Partner doesn’t want to work
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Partner doesn’t want to work

Me and my partner with a baby boy live in a top 5 city to live in California so rent pretty expensive and everything in general and just saw how much I’ve made this month at my pretty decent paying job which is $6057 for the month yet I’m still left with $21 in my account and no matter how many times I try to talk to her about budgeting instead of always trying to spend money she cares for a week then goes back to her saying “ let’s go out and get food “ or “ let’s go to a amusement park “ and when I say no she just gets mad and when I say mad I mean it.

She try’s to say “ oh for your ex you would’ve done it “ when that comparison is bs cause when I was with that person I didn’t have to pay 3k in bills a month.

Our son is 8 months old now and he’s pretty independent when it comes to sleeping on his own and playing so I’ve asked her to have her sister watch our son while she work and she doesn’t want to. just says that as a women she should be able to stay home while I am the sole provider and that I’m not being fair.

luckily, we aren’t officially married yet but This entitled/not respecting my budget behavior has been questioning whether I even wanna get married and just end up coparenting 100%.

Jolly rancher c4 I buy in bulk to save money

u/Top-Cobbler-2214 — 5 days ago

Miss my old life

About a year and three months ago, I had a pretty decent life where I was recently just single working a pretty decent job and also going to college, but ended up messing up and getting a girl pregnant that I only knew for about a month and now even though we have a beautiful son she’s very abusive emotional and physically and doesn’t let me do anything besides work and come home. I miss just being able to leave when I want with my friends and now I can’t see them apparently they voiced their opinion too much when she first got pregnant and she felt disrespected. We are trying to get counseling, but even then she laid hands on me yesterday by hitting me on my arm and my back with a hairbrush at full force Just cause I wanted to go out with my son somewhere just me and him. I’m only 22 by the way, but genuinely I reminisce my old life all the time. it’s not as easy as everyone says to just leave when there’s so much things we have been through even though I know eventually thats Going to be the outcome us going your own separate ways in coparenting. In a way I feel like I deserve This cause I knew I was playing a dangerous game But here we are now.

u/Top-Cobbler-2214 — 1 month ago
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No words for the Mp145 (og)

Little words to be said for the big sound I got out of these bad boys and the amount of detail and technicalities blows my dunu koto itos out of the water and I thought those were already endgame. best part is that I grabbed them for 120 with tax and man no regrets. such a crispy and beautiful sound. Spicy treble in some house tracks but I love the energy. Don’t even get me started on the soundstage.

u/Top-Cobbler-2214 — 2 months ago
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Should I just accept this offer or pay in full ?

I had a rough 4 months of unemployment and relied on this card from c1 to help me and really quickly the balance grew to 12k but I’m a grown adult and I know I messed up but I’m kinda scared to take the 70% off settlement due to taxes owed on the debt forgiven at the end of year and also from reading this sub, I’ve seen people say that their credit score got even lower after settling for a different amount than the full amount And to point the obvious I can’t afford to pay the full amount. Genuinely seems like a good offer and want to put this debt behind me as it’s haunting me and to obtain a top security clearance in the job I want I need to take care of this.

u/Top-Cobbler-2214 — 2 months ago

A week and half ago I posted a lil post about the jm21 and since then I’ve returned it and upgraded to the m21 and man it’s been such a great experience. The battery life alone is worth the jump but the metal build and snappy software is a plus.

Genuinely if you have the money id say for for it 100% but even then the jm21 I feel for the price at 193 I paid with tax is phenomenal and would’ve stayed with it if I didn’t have the money to upgrade. The only con from what I felt is that it feels a tad bit heavier and for some people it can become fatiguing but I felt it was okay in my opinion. Also more of a gimmick but the cassette case which is still in transit is pretty nice and can’t wait for it to add it on.

u/Top-Cobbler-2214 — 2 months ago